Online Reporter
H-Metro Reporters
OUR cover story in yesterday’s edition of H-Metro about an 11-year marriage, which has collapsed under the strain of an adulterous affair between a woman and her workmate, appears to have triggered a fierce online debate.
The marriage of Oripa Chapwanya Ngibe, 41, and Kudakwashe Ngibe, 41, collapsed under the weight of a controversy triggered by romantic photographs.
Oripa was having a relationship with her married workmate, who has only been identified as Hora.
Part of the debate appears to have been split along gender lines.
One of our readers, under the Facebook username God’s Power Sande, triggered some controversy when he dragged the debate to a disgusting low level in which he launched a savage attack on women.
“Am still wondering why man and God has three letters, while woman and Satan has five.”
But, Deliwe Nkwena, hit back as she fought in the women’s corner.
“What about Man and Dog?”
However, the other contributions from our readers did not cross the line and here are some of their views:
Marriage dzemu Zimbabwe ndomamwe madrugs aya anotoda serious rehabilitation chaiyo. Isu vamwe topedzisira tisingachatode kupinda mu marriage yacho with the way infidelity cases are souring. – Prosper Mboko
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If my husband humiliates me like this, I would leave him, men think that cheating shouldn’t be done by women only. If someone doesn’t respect you they are not worth keeping them. — Sharon Maphala
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Ngaaende hake agoona kuti chikomba chacho hachitorina kana basa naye futi.— Felistas Njanjure
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Workmate inokuda uri kumurume wako wangorambwa ikoko naiye nezvako haachada in Marabha’s voice hanty. —Josphine MaNcube Wekwa Machiridzah
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We cant deny that cheating is demonic. If you look closely mukadzi iyeye anotoitirwa zvese but she doesn’t appreciate. Some men don’t allow their wives to go to work for that reason. Kumabasa uku koitwa chimwe chikudo chisiko. — Tinashe Ndhlela Tinah
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I hope they are the new couple now. Ngavachiroorana tione zvisisiri zvekudananirana kubasa vachibirira. — Lindiwe Jazi
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Hazvina kutanga nhasi izvi vamwe venyu you are products of “work marriages” you just dn’t know it saka musanyanye kuLouder. —Chembere Good
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Munhu anongokuda une munhu wako mukangorambana nemunhu wako haachatokuda. —Shami Mnandi Maphosa
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I thought the whole “work spouse “ thing was fiction. —Gugulethu Faith Patience
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Varume vemazuvaano mune husimbe hamudi kushanda zvino tonokushandirai tonakidzwa hedu nana giribheti kumabasa kwacho hedu todiyi paya tiregei isu. — Betty Patsvani
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Varume ngavadzidze kutora vakadzi vezera ravo izvo zvevana vadiki kwavari pakaipa hapo.— Loveness Mpopoma
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Tazvinzwa imba inoda kunamatirwa mese murivabereki muchainzwa pain yekuti mwanasikana wenyu akarambirwa chih***e omuti waishayeyi oti hapana zvakangondibatawo. — Winston Chivaka
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Hapana chinoshamisa apa. Two can play the game. pamwe murume ndiye akatanga.ngavanamatire dzimba dzavo nekugeza. —Tafadzwa Mawadza
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Vakadzi hatina zera navo, anogona kubatwa nemudumbu mekunyepera achida kuenda kutoilet kunosangana nechikomba. —Believe Tsangira
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You not the only one one bro don’t stress 90% in the comment section are in the same predicament as you just that havasati vabatwa chete. Harare is one big bedroom marry at your own risk. — Leeroy Wags
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Ndivoka ma real man vanoti no problem mukadzi ngaaende kubasa nhasi yazvikanga nemafuta ayo nguruve.
Workplace romance ya Mahora yaita horror chaiyo. Pakadai amu boyfriend vanobva vakusvipai moona wanga ungori mujolo chete imi. —Patrick Chits
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Vakadzi vatora chimuti che cheating. If you’re a married man and have a have a good and honest wife, tendai Mwari and treasurer her. That’s why ku DNA show uko vazhinji vari kubatirwa pa probability of paternity. —Tinei Sibanda
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And somebody blames us for staying single in our late thirties. This is embarrassing to learn that a married woman was having an affair with a married workmate. Ndivo vanhu vanokonzeresa zvinzi vakadzi musaenda kubasa ivava. -Vincent Zimuto
