15-year-old with 10 boyfriends: A community’s struggle for change

Fungai Lupande-Mashonaland Central Bureau

IN the quiet villages of Mt Darwin, a shocking case has laid bare a crisis festering beneath the surface: A 15-year-old girl reportedly has 10 boyfriends, many of them older men.

Her story is not an isolated one. Instead, it reflects a disturbing trend of child marriages, teenage pregnancies, and a collapse of moral values in this rural district — now the epicenter of Mashonaland Central’s child welfare emergency.

Mt Darwin’s rolling hills and scattered settlements hide a dark reality.

Village Head Richard Ngapasare recounts how girls as young as nine are being married off, often with the complicity of their families.

“They sneak out at night, going to beerhalls or men’s homes,” he says, shaking his head.

“Schools are emptying. This girl with 10 boyfriends? She’s just one of many.”

The causes are deep-rooted: poverty, religious extremism, and a lack of enforcement.

Many families, struggling to survive, see marriage as an escape—or a transaction. In some Apostolic sects, child brides are a religious norm.

Police efforts to prosecute offenders are hobbled by bureaucracy. Most victims have no birth certificates, and newly issued documents are not accepted in court. Instead, age verification requires a dental assessment in Bindura—a costly, time-consuming process that allows perpetrators to flee.

Constable Lazarus Nyemba of Mt Darwin’s Victim-Friendly Unit warns:

“The law is clear—marrying a minor means five years in jail, no fines. But without proof of age, cases collapse.”

Even more troubling is the role of community leaders. Chief Kandeya admits some village heads help conceal these unions—until things go wrong.

“Parents only speak up when the marriage sours, usually after a bride price dispute,” he says. “But by then, the damage is done.”

He has vowed to stop handling such cases in traditional courts and instead refer them to the police.

Amid the despair, grassroots efforts are emerging.

The “Not in My Village” campaign is rallying chiefs, police, and NGOs to combat child marriage. Meanwhile, the Sister-to-Sister program—led by Apostolic women—is mentoring girls to resist early marriage and stay in school.

Robin Adams, Mt Darwin’s AIDS Coordinator, believes change is possible:

“These girls need role models. They need to know marriage isn’t the only path.”

Yet, challenges remain. Poor roads isolate rural wards, leaving NGOs unable to reach the worst-affected areas.

Many girls drop out despite having CAMFED bursaries, lured by the false promise of security in marriage.

As the sun sets over Mt Darwin, the question lingers: Will this district confront its demons, or will another generation of girls be lost to early marriages?

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