What type are you?

FROM the feedback received following last weekaï¿½ï¿½s article it seems people are really interested in exploring their partnersaï¿½ï¿½ bodies and all they needed was just a push in the right direction.

Well, this week I would like to know if you have ever shared that funny part with your partner where you help each other in identifying what type of animal you are in bed?

It is important for one to know whether she is a screamer, moaner, biter, scratcher or the log.

You know it is important to know these things because at times people need to control themselves. For example, with screamers you have to be careful that you are not too loud and end up waking up the whole house.

If you are a scratcher, have mercy on your partner because if you do it too hard you are bound to leave him nursing wounds.

There is also a biter who when they are in another world canaï¿½ï¿½t resist being on vampire mode as they leave incriminating sexual evidence in terms of bite marks all over the body.

Then there are the silent ones whom most of the times itaï¿½ï¿½s difficult to tell whether they are enjoying or not and a few who just make up faces to express themselves when they are aï¿½?aï¿½?cumingaï¿½ï¿½aï¿½ï¿½.

Nevertheless, sisters there is a good part in identifying yourself, above the stated categories, it comes hand in glove when you find yourself faced with aAï¿½ sexual encounter to tackle in between the sheets.

There is definitely nothing wrong about being a screamer, if you have played netball you understand how the cheering fans drive the star in you to score every minute. Bring that experience to the bedroom, there is no difference, screaming is an encouragement to your partner that he is doing the right thing. But sisters please donaï¿½ï¿½t overdo it, that noise can be traumatising to spectators. Just keep it within your walls.

Sisters, if you are a log you have a serious problem to solve. A mini-survey among workmates showed that logs are a no, no for many men!! Why will you just lie there as if you are suffering from post-traumatic stress? If you are a log, just try to move a bit and acknowledge your partneraï¿½ï¿½s efforts. In fact, it wonaï¿½ï¿½t kill you, but take the fun to another level.

Thus being said sisters, scream moderately and wriggle yourself a bit just to show that the bedroom game is on point.

Anyway you are the moderator and the curator of your own sex life.

If you are a log my sister you are bound to miscommunicate using body language. Just lying in bed can send the message that you are feeling nothing, your partner can assume that he is failing to satisfy you. aï¿½?aï¿½?Pepaï¿½ï¿½aï¿½ï¿½ talk after sex is not enough sisters, talk your ways during sex, scream if you feel like and make all movements in as much as his manhood inspires you to.

That being said now and then, there are sisters who believe in going for the jugular during the game, they will rather scratch their way to orgasm. But sister, once you draw blood from your partner know that you are overdoing it. Of course he can tolerate a few scratches.

Scratching no doubt is a sign that you are getting the real deal. I bet in this phase your partner feels like you are giving him an appraisal of being the man, who knows the path with no potholes towards orgasm. Scratching is actually the sex highlight of an imaginary picture you are drawing towards an orgasm.

With all this being said my sisters, most partners are not fools, too much of anything can be boring. It becomes worse if you are faking it because one day you will be caught.

Sisters, relax and listen to your natural sixth sexual sense and let your body do the talking, itaï¿½ï¿½s as simple as that.

Parting shot, sisters go scream, scratch, donaï¿½ï¿½t be a log and dirty talk yourself all the way to the big O. Till next week.

FEEDBACK

Thank you, I really love your column as it helps a lot.

Thanks for your column, it is very educative especially the issue to know the body of your partner.

I just want to thank you for your article which I read. You are doing a wonderful job to educate these ladies. Surely there are many cases which we have heard where people sleep with the wrong person thinking itaï¿½ï¿½s their partner.

Keep on going with your job and i will follow. aï¿½ï¿½ Chivhu.

Thank you for your article Explore your partners body. Itaï¿½ï¿½s really useful. Please keep educating us.

You are doing a great job. At my age there were many things I did not know, but through your column I know a lot now.

Thanks for the information you give in your column. It really helps me a lot.

What a nice column on Explore your partneraï¿½ï¿½s body. A lot has been learnt.

Hey sis Nhla, thanks for your teachings..

Thanks for a wonderful job my sister; keep up the spirit your column is educating.

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