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Latwell Nyangu-Youth Interactive Writer
In the halls of universities, dreams are nurtured and futures are moulded, but there is a heartbreaking reality that is persisting, the tragic epidemic of student suicides.
Of course, in the corridors of academic pressures, social dynamics, and personal struggles lies a profound sense of despair that drives some students to believe that death is their only escape.
Every year, countless stories echo through campuses, each one a poignant reminder of the fragile nature of youth.
I have realised that the pressures of student life can sometimes become unbearable, leading to feelings of hopelessness and despair.
It’s vital to address these feelings openly, emphasising that there is help and hope available.
It’s true that students grapple with the weight of expectations, both self-imposed and external.
As the pressure mounts, so does the pain. Issues such as unrequited love, unexpected pregnancies, and the fear of failure can feel insurmountable.
In these moments of darkness, some may see no other option but to end their suffering. Love that feels lost, grades that seem unattainable, or futures that appear bleak can overshadow the hope that tomorrow may bring a different perspective.
This week, I am a bit emotional as I have observed that some students are now preferring death as a way of escaping some challenges both on and off campus. I have many questions about why some students are killing themselves.
When I was having a conversation with myself, I realised that maybe some have problems at home, some have mental health issues, some are coming from poor backgrounds.
But of late, I have observed that some are killing themselves as a way to escape shame, and some want to end their misery. A recent one was a student who impregnated his girlfriend and was not able to stand the pressures that were mounting on him.
Maybe it was shame or he just wanted to save himself from the drama.
Another schoolgirl reportedly killed herself after an alleged cheating by a schoolboy. She decided to take her own life just because he was seen with another girl at the same school.
I remember writing something around, don’t die for love, but it seems such cases on the rise.
I still want to argue that in my entire life, I have never heard of a student who died while reading or doing research.
Why can’t students make history while doing the academic or self-empowerment stuff, rather than make history of being buried after killing themselves over love-related things.
Former Malawian President Kamuzu Banda once said, he is too busy to die. After saying those words, he died 45 years later.
He adopted the philosophy of restructuring the country, and he died 45 years later. His words were powerful.
Last week alone, I heard of many stories of students who committed suicide over different issues related to mental health, among other family problems.
The elders are burying their children who are opting for death.
Death is imminent, but why are the students cutting their lives short.
It’s crucial to remember that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but an act of immense courage.
Universities are equipped with resources, counselling services, peer support groups, and hotlines ready to listen and offer guidance.
One thing that students should know is that they are not alone in the struggle.
Save your lives by reaching out.
The stigmas surrounding mental health often prevent students from speaking out.
The fear of judgment or not being understood can create an isolating environment. Yet, it’s essential to foster a culture of openness and support, where students can express their struggles without fear.
There is hope, even in the darkest times. Stories of resilience abound.
Students who have faced overwhelming challenges often emerge stronger, equipped with the hopes to overcome their demons.
They remind us that it’s okay to feel lost and that there’s always a path toward healing. I implore all the students, if you or someone you know is experiencing thoughts of self-harm, please reach out for help. Life, with all its ups and downs, is worth living. Together, we can create a community where every student feels valued and supported. Let us remind ourselves and each other that you are not alone in this academic journey.
The pursuit of academic excellence can be intense and students often feel weighed down by the expectations to achieve high grades, meet deadlines, and secure future employment.
This journey is not about perfection, but it’s about progress.
Students have to keep moving forward, one step at a time.
When I wrote, be a brother or sister’s keeper at college, I meant to say, let’s be on the lookout for each other.
Sometimes, we forget to check on each other after university or while on campus. It’s important to recognise the signs that someone may be struggling.
Changes in behaviour, withdrawal from friends, or a decline in academic performance can be indicators that someone is in distress.
Your life matters.
In the face of difficulties, let’s choose to stand together, to listen, and to uplift one another.
Life is a journey filled with twists and turns, and there is always hope for brighter days ahead.
Until we meet for a toast
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