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Sarah Phillips-Faith Matters
I often hear people talk about good things in their lives as blessings, or describe feeling ‘blessed’.
They are usually talking about tangible things like their children, their dream home, work or good health.
Certainly, these are gifts from God.
He loves to give good things to his children and we should absolutely be thankful. But the problem with saying that you are blessed when the offer is accepted on your ideal house, or when you meet the person of your dreams, is that when it does not happen, you surely have to assume you are not so blessed after all.
Worse still, it can cause other people to wrongly conclude that they are not so ‘blessed’ because they are unemployed or their child is sick. So what is blessing, really, and how should we speak about it?
The Bible tells us that blessing is God’s favour, an extending of his grace, and it begins when we first receive forgiveness and faith is born.
Blessed are those whose lawless deeds are forgiven, and whose sins are covered; blessed is the man against whom the Lord will not count his sin. (Romans 4:7-8/Psalm 32)
In other words, blessing begins when we trust Christ. If your sins are forgiven, you are unimaginably blessed.
What about blessing beyond that? The more I have explored what God says about being blessed, the more convinced I have become that blessing is really not to do with earthly benefits at all.
Once we have come to know him, it is to do with seeking God and being close to him. The psalms demonstrate this over and over:
Blessed is the one who trusts in him (psalm 84);
Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him (Psalm 34);
Blessed are those who seek him with their whole heart (Psalm 119)
It is also about being made more like him as we seek to obey him, and he teaches us:
All these blessings are to do with God. He gives good gifts, but He is the greatest blessing.
Not only is blessing not really to do with earthly benefits, it is often related specifically to suffering. In the beatitudes, Jesus says those who mourn will be blessed, and those who are poor. (See Luke 6)
He also says that those who are persecuted for his sake will be blessed, and this is echoed later in the New Testament. Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial. (James 1:12).
It is easy to wonder if we want to be blessed after all! But what a profound comfort to those who are mourning, poor, persecuted or suffering a fiery trial. In their pain, they are blessed.
I have a friend who may not seem very ‘blessed’ to people looking in from the outside. At age 18, he was diagnosed with aggressive leukaemia and went from professionally swimming to fighting for his life in hospital in a matter of weeks.
Over the next few years he endured treatment after treatment, each one more brutal than the last. He is now cancer free, but is instead living with a debilitating chronic condition—a result of the cancer.
For seven years now, he has endured chronic pain that prevents him from sleeping, increasingly damaged skin that seriously affects his mobility and causes terrible wounds that refuse to heal.
At 29 he cannot work, exercise or travel and spends many hours of the week in hospital. But he is extraordinarily blessed because he knows with utter certainty and conviction, that his Heavenly Father loves him and knows what is ultimately good for him. He is blessed because he walks closely with God, driven daily to his knees in prayer
But why must it be through suffering? Is not there an easier route to blessing? Sadly, left to ourselves, our hearts are stubborn and cold, and our natural inclination is to try to do everything in our own strength, to walk our own way, to be independent from God.
We look for love, security and happiness in all the wrong places, but God longs for us to find it in him, to lean on him and do things in his strength.
We will not take refuge in God unless we learn that our health, relationships or finances are not reliable refuges for us.
We will not learn to seek him with [our] whole hearts until we realise that only he can truly satisfy us. He is the great blessing, and experiencing his presence and tasting his love often happens on a deeper level through difficulty.
Of course, suffering itself is not a blessing, and it is not the only way to experience God more deeply.
But it is so often within the sphere of suffering that God bends and shapes our hearts to become more like him.
That is a blessing! What a comfort then, that when we find ourselves in the fire, we know that God is not against us, but instead is refining and strengthening us through it. Blessing often comes through pain. Good gifts are enjoyable here and now, but blessing lasts for eternity. – TGC
