Bosso at 100, wailings of a forgotten fan

Veronica Gwaze

Zimpapers Sports Hub

MELUSI KHUMALO has never stopped being Bosso, even when life slowly pushed him out of the stands.

For years, Highlanders supporters knew him simply as Melo, the wheelchair-bound fan who rarely missed a home game, parked right at the front, close enough to feel every tackle, every roar, every swing of emotion.

He showed up at training too, not as a visitor, but as one of them.

That world has drifted out of reach.

Today, Melo follows Highlanders from a cramped room in Trenance, on the outskirts of Bulawayo, where football has become a luxury he can no longer afford.

Zimpapers Sports Hub found him there. The yard is rough, the ground uneven, the heat sits heavy. Inside, life is stripped to the bare minimum. His mother, Sithokozile Khoza, moves slowly along the wall for support, her body weakened by a stroke, but still fighting to keep going. There is no sign of breakfast. No sign of routine. Just survival.

Melo sits quietly, but the pain is close to the surface.

“Life has dealt me a heavy blow since birth and I have always felt that Highlanders is the only place I can be happy, but fate snatched that away from me again,” he said.

That sense of loss did not start with football. He grew up in Bulawayo’s central business district, raised by a single mother who worked as a nurse. He only met his father once, in his mid-20s.

“Growing up, I never knew my father until around my mid-20s when my mother told me about him and I paid him a visit in what was the first and last visit . . . we do not have a relationship,” he said.

Football filled that gap.

His mother introduced him to Highlanders when he was three. From then on, Bosso became his space, his escape, his identity.

When things got hard, the stadium still felt like home. Then life tightened its grip.

His mother’s stroke changed everything. Medical bills mounted. Rent became a struggle. Food was no longer guaranteed. The small things began to disappear.

In 2024, the final blow came.

An eviction notice forced them out of a house they had lived in for 35 years.

“We hopped from home to home until someone offered us a ‘home’ at this plot where we live as a family of four in this tiny room,” said Khumalo.

That move quietly ended his matchday routine.

“Attending Bosso matches is now a luxury I cannot afford, I need a taxi to and from the stadium and that costs approximately US$20 . . . whenever I get that much, the first thing that comes to mind is our medical supplies, food and general welfare,” he said.

“I wished to be part of Highlanders’ 100 years celebrations, but I will have to celebrate from here; I will just put on my regalia as a sign of allegiance . . . my blood is black and white.”

The distance from Barbourfields is not just physical. It is emotional.

Last season, as Highlanders fought to avoid relegation, Melo followed it all on radio, powerless, disconnected.

“I was unable to attend matches, so I relied on radio updates and it was heartbreaking because I believe it is better to watch games live and judge the team’s performance firsthand,” he said.

His bond with the club has never wavered.  He still speaks of the Ndlovu brothers — Madinda, Peter and the late Adam — with reverence.

He still remembers Zenzo Moyo, Johannes Ngodzo and Tapuwa Kapini. In the current side, he sees hope in Andrew Mbeba and Prince Ndlovu.

Highlanders once stood by him too. The club offered support at one point, and he was made a life member, a gesture he still holds close. But life moved faster than goodwill could keep up.

Inside the same room, his mother carries her own weight of memory and regret.

“I was brutally beaten by my parents and brothers after discovering that I was pregnant around the age of 16, and I believe that this is what affected my child, hence he was born disabled,” she said.

“They wanted to marry me off to the man who impregnated me, but I felt that pregnancy was a mistake and after giving birth I wanted to continue with school.

“I managed to go back to school and eventually became a nurse, but I am still bitter about the harsh punishment during pregnancy. Despite having mended our relations over the years, I blame them for my son’s condition.”

Her voice breaks often. The past is not buried. The responsibility now sits heavily on her sister, Silibaziso, who looks after both Melo and his mother while raising her own two-year-old child.

“I feel I never got the chance to be happy in my life. As a young girl, I had to help my sister by taking care of her son while she was working and now I have to be here for both of them,” said Silibaziso, wiping away tears.

“They are my family, but I feel like God has given me a lot to bear, and I have no one to support me even when things are tough.”

She takes whatever work she can find nearby, never straying far from home.

“I take up jobs in nearby plots because I need to be close to home all times . . . their movement is difficult, so I have to help,” she said. “I live an emotionally painful life, and you have forced me to open up about some things that I have carried in my heart for years.”

Back in the room, Melo leans on the one thing that has not changed — Highlanders.

A club turning 100. A century of stories, triumphs, heartbreak, identity.

He knows he is part of that story, even if he now watches it from a distance.

“I wish to be part of the Bosso at 100 celebrations, I want to be part of the club’s story, but if I do not get a well-wisher to help me attend, I will follow proceedings from home . . . it will never take away my love for Amahlolanyama,” he said.

For Melo, Bosso is no longer about being seen at the front row.

It is about holding on, even when everything else has slipped away.

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