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Fidelis Chavarike
Weekender Reporter
THE Mutare Civil Court has officially granted Memory Dube a long-term protection order against her husband, Tafara Ngandini, whom she accused of repeated acts of violence, intimidation and neglect.
The couple from Chikanga Two, appeared before magistrate, Ms Purity Gumbo.
Dube told the court that the abuse had persisted for over 18 months, despite a previous order issued in 2020.
“For a short while, he had changed, and stopped beating me, but once the order lapsed, the violence returned with even greater intensity.
“I thought he had matured and would value the peace we had built, so I did not renew it. Now he comes home late at night, locks me and the children outside, and refuses to buy food. At night, he insults me, throws objects around the house, and sometimes beats me over small matters,” she said.
She further alleged that Ngandini deliberately destroys household property and repeatedly chases her and their children from their home, leaving them vulnerable.
The court’s protection order, she emphasised was her only hope to safeguard herself and the children from further abuse.
Dube told the court that Ngandini smashed her mobile phone and tore their children’s school books, accusing her of disrespect and infidelity.
“He says I don’t deserve anything new. He constantly drives us out of the house. We have two children, and he contributes nothing towards their welfare. When he is sober, he shouts at us, when drunk he becomes violent and uncontrollable,” she added.
She also claimed that Ngandini mocks her family, accusing her of bringing bad luck.
“Even his sister tried to intervene, but he insulted her in front of the children and elderly relatives. He uses vulgar language daily, exposing our children to toxic behaviour, and creating unsafe environment at home,” she said.
In response, Ngandini admitted to some of the allegations, but argued that stress and unemployment pushed him to anger.
“She provokes me when I am frustrated. I lost my job last year, and have not secured a stable job.
“I regret my actions, but sometimes I feel disrespected when she ignores me. I promise to change and try harder to provide for the family,” said Ngandini, remorsefully.
Dube disputed his claims, stating that he spends most of his time at gambling houses and avoids responsibility.
“He is never home. By midday, he will be gone. I provide for the children alone. I had hoped he would change, but things have worsened with time. He does not care about the children’s schooling or health.”
Ms Gumbo granted the protection order in Dube’s favour.
“The order is hereby issued, and will remain valid for four years. Any violation will result in serious consequences including possible imprisonment. The respondent must fully comply with its terms and refrain from any form of abuse,” she said.
