“The customer is always right.”- Harry Gordon Selfridge
Cresencia Marjorie Chiremba
As families around the world celebrated Father’s Day last Sunday, it is an opportune moment to reflect on the parallels between the qualities of a good father and those of exceptional customer service.
Both roles require dedication, understanding and a commitment to delivering happiness and satisfaction.
A father’s unwavering support and guidance mirror the journey businesses take with their customers.
From the first point of contact to post-sale support, customers seek a service that echoes the reliability and trustworthiness they associate with paternal figures.
In this light, Father’s Day serves as a reminder for businesses to embody these paternal traits in their customer service ethos. It’s not just about transactions; it’s about building relationships founded on trust, much like the bond between a father and his family.
The Paternal Paradigm of Service
A father’s role is multi-faceted, encompassing provider, protector, mentor, and more. These roles are not unlike those roles a business plays in its customers’ lives.
Just as a father strives to meet the needs of his family, businesses must anticipate and fulfil customer needs with precision and empathy.
The protective nature of a father, who ensures the safety and well-being of his children, is mirrored in how companies must safeguard customer interests through integrity and ethical practices.
Guidance with a Gentle Hand
Guidance is another paternal trait that translates seamlessly into customer service.
A good father guides his children through life’s challenges with a gentle hand, offering wisdom without imposing.
Similarly, businesses should steer customers through their purchasing journey with insightful recommendations and support, allowing them to make informed decisions without feeling pressured.
The Language of Appreciation
Appreciation is a language spoken universally by fathers and service providers alike. A father expresses appreciation for his family’s milestones, big or small.
In business, this translates to recognising and valuing customer loyalty. Personalised thank you notes, rewards programmes or simply remembering a repeat customer’s name.
All these gestures speak volumes about a company’s gratitude towards its patrons.
Reliability: The Cornerstone of Trust
Reliability forms the cornerstone of trust in any relationship. Children look up to their fathers as pillars of dependability. Customers seek the same in businesses.
Whether it’s honouring product warranties or providing consistent quality service, reliability cements customer trust and loyalty.
Empathy: Walking in Their Shoes
Empathy is perhaps one of the most significant attributes a father can possess – understanding and sharing in his children’s feelings and experiences.
For businesses, empathy means putting oneself in the customer’s hoes, understanding their pain points, and offering solutions that truly address their concerns. For instance, if you own a shop and do not like consuming stale bread, then you should not sell stale bread to your customers.
Patience: The Virtue of Service
Patience is a virtue ascribed to both fathers and service providers. A father patiently teaches his child to ride a bike, businesses must similarly exercise patience when dealing with customer queries or complaints.
It’s about giving customers the time they need to express themselves without rushing them through the process.
The Joy of Giving
The joy of giving is inherent in fatherhood, finding happiness in seeing one’s family happy. For businesses, this means going beyond what is expected to delight customers.
It could be an unexpected upgrade, a complimentary service, or just delivering more than what was promised.
Building Lasting Bonds
At its core, Father’s Day celebrates relationships – the enduring bond between a father and his children. Customer service should aim to build similar lasting bonds with customers, relationships not defined by transactions but by mutual respect and understanding.
Embracing Paternal Principles
As we reflect on Father’s Day and its significance, let us embrace the paternal principles that can elevate our approach to customer service. By embodying these values – appreciation, reliability, empathy, patience, and joy – we can transform our service into an experience that customers cherish.
In doing so, we honour not just our fathers but also the very essence of service itself – a commitment to enrich lives through our actions and interactions.
Cresencia Marjorie Chiremba is a marketing consultant with a strong passion for customer experience. For comments, suggestions, and training, she can be reached at [email protected] or at +263 712 979 461, 0719 978 335, 0772 978 335




