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Brian Ngosi
When starting a new day, I put a smile on my face with the sole intention of liberating myself from the failures of yesterday.
With each day that comes I recollect and gather momentum to face the new day, this attitude and mannerism is from one of my greatest life lessons: the greatest challenge in your life is self-bondage.
The first step to a better life is to free yourself from any limitations. If you make the first stop your head, then the battle is half worn.
Those mental pictures that you see every time you close your eyes when faced with a situation either make or break you. What you see is who you become.
Do not tell yourself that you will never make it. If you see yourself failing, then you would have shot yourself in the foot before you even start. Run away from the thinking that you will never make it by merely looking at what is ahead of you.
Should you tell yourself you can do it that will energize you to face even the worst of hurdles. Your ambition determines your pace and zeal.
There is little that you can do if you are in a confined space. Remember incarceration is meant to limit or deprive you of your freedoms.
Things are done in confinement when you are bonded.
No situation should be your end. You need to liberate yourself from the mental chains with which you bind yourself.
High self-esteem gives you an advantage when faced with life challenges.
Distinguish yourself by being free to venture into your full potential. You cannot discover who you are when you are stuck in self- oppression.
The world can only give you a chance that is if you give yourself a chance and present yourself confidently.
The label that you carry should not limit you from achieving greatness. Do not use what people said about you to live your life.
If ever you find yourself being your own judge jury and prosecutor be bold enough to dismiss the case with no costs.
Always remember to be at your best and never blame yourself even when the worst happens.
Learn to give yourself the benefit of doubt when things don’t go your way. Treat every failure as learning curve and promise yourself to do better.
Always be open to learn what you could have done better in any situation which will build your informed set off point in future.
There is enough negative energy in the world such that you do not need to be a third force to yourself.
Chances that you do not get there are already high due to external factors, the best gift that you have is your internal drive.
If you ever find a day you label yourself negatively that should form a reflection point. You do not have to be the reason why you cry.
The best that you can is to be a good manager to yourself. Not that you can lie to yourself but learn to give yourself the best chance to be a better person.
Every day encourage and motivate yourself to achieve beyond personal and societal expectations.
If you believe in yourself the days of your life will be light on your shoulders. With less weight the probability that you will go far gets meaningful chances.
If you chose to place yourself into bondage no amount of external intervention will lift you up.
There is no motivation or inspiration that can pierce a cold heart. Self-belief is the foundation upon which all other efforts can be made.
The best you can do is to free yourself to be receptive of all the help that come your way.
If you are free you are better placed to manage the good and bad days of your life.
Freedom gives you an enlightened perspective with which you can tackle all the days of your life.
The clarity with which you see the future lies in how clear your mind is. The struggle is real the same way victory is certain the question is if you have what it takes.
Freedom lies within, be kind to yourself.
*Brian Ngosi is a life coach and motivational writer with a desire to inspire individuals to make a difference for the greater good of society. Brian can be interacted with on: [email protected], Facebook: #BN_inspired or WhatsApp: +263772440383
Tinaye Agere
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