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Whenever you use a social network, send a text, or post online, you are adding to your online identity.
Your online identity may be different from your real-world identity — the way your friends, parents, and teachers think of you.
Trying on different personas is part of the fun of an online life. You can change the way you act and present yourself to others, and you can learn more about things that interest you. And, just as in real life, you can take steps to help you stay in control.
Things to consider
Here are some things to consider to safeguard your online identity and reputation:
- Remember that nothing is temporary online.
The online world is full of chances to interact and share with others. It is also a place where nothing is temporary and there are no “take-backs.” A lot of what you do and say online can be seen even if you delete it — and it is a breeze for others to copy, save, and forward your information.
- Mark your profiles as private
Anyone who accesses your profile on social networking sites can copy or screen-grab information and photos that you may not want the world to see. Do not rely on the site’s default settings. Read each site’s guidelines to make sure you are doing everything you can to keep your material private.
- Safeguard your passwords and change them often
If someone logs on to a site and pretends to be you, they can trash your identity. Pick passwords that no one will guess and change them often.
Don’t post inappropriate or sexually provocative pictures or comments
Things that seem funny or cool to may not seem so cool years from now — or when a teacher, admissions officer, or potential employer sees them.
- Don’t respond to inappropriate requests
Many people get inappropriate messages and solicitations when they are online. These can be scary, strange, and even embarrassing. If you feel harassed by a stranger or a friend online, report immediately. It is never a good idea to respond. Responding is only likely to make things worse, and may result in you saying something you wish you had not.
Feeling anonymous on social networks or other sites can make people feel OK about posting mean, insulting, or abusive comments. Sharing stuff or making angry comments when we are not face to face with someone can be hurtful and damage how others see us if they find out. A good rule to remember: if you would not say it, show it, or do it in person, you do not want to online.
- Respect copyrights
Know about copyright laws and make sure you do not post, share, or distribute copyrighted images, songs, or files. Sure, you want to share them, but you do not want to do anything illegal that can come back to haunt you later.
- Check yourself
Check your “digital footprint.” Try typing your screen name or email address into a search engine and see what comes up. That is one way to get a sense of what others see as your online identity.
- Take it offline
In general, if you have questions about the trail you are leaving online, do not be afraid to ask a trusted adult. Sure, you may know more about the online world than a lot of adults do, but they have life experience that can help.
Your online identity and reputation are shaped in much the same way as your real-life identity.
But when you are online you do not always get a chance to explain your tone or what you mean. Thinking before you post and being responsible can help you avoid leaving an online identity trail you regret. — teenshealth
Online Reporter