Ita��s the in-thing!

SOME men call it a�?getting heada�? and women a�?going downa�? and even at times it takes up the name of a fruit a�� a�?mangoa�? yes, ita��s so much fun.

But unfortunately other parties are shy to introduce it in the bedroom even though it has been around for decades because they fear being judged and accused of cheating, having learnt it somewhere.

Licking your partnera��s privates is not as disgusting as some would like to believe. In fact, one should enjoy doing it and it does not really make sense to hear someone complaining of her partner being dirty. If you are kissing that person then what stops you from going down on him?

Okay, besides being dirty, I know some people always bring in the health issue. Licking is healthy and the only time it becomes a problem is if one of you has an STI or an infection. Given that you are married and exclusive to each other, this shouldna��t really be an issue.

Cleanliness is also an important consideration. Showering or bathing prior to sexual activity helps in removing the daily dirt, sweat and other a�?collectiblesa�? that accumulate over the course of the day.

If you and your partner love performing oral on each other, have it.

For many, ita��s the ultimate sexual experience, preferable to intercourse nowadays. For those who find it difficult to reach orgasm or whoa�?a�?comea��a�� easily during sex, they depend on their partner sucking them to derive the ultimate and intense pleasure of sex.

Back then, any attempt to go down was perceived as a�?a�?dirtya��a�� or unreligious, nowadays more and more people are fast becoming addicts of sucking their partnersa�� private parts as a a�?a�?compulsory aspecta��a�� of foreplay before getting down to the real business of love making.

The truth is that even when people are doing it, if you try to discuss it in public they act shocked and always say ita��s disgusting. When it comes to this, even your friends will be discreet and keep the craze of sucking away. So sister, always be adventurous in the bedroom and never leave your man wishing that if only you had gone down on him, he would have been satisfied.

Truly speaking, how many will choose being fingered over being licked? At least with being sucked, one feels the action at the G-Spot and clitoris. These two erogenous zones as far as a womana��s sexual pleasures are concerned may be conquered territories which provide sexual pleasure to a woman. A tongue does enough justice compared to the finger!

With the increasing dislike for bare fingers, women prefer their partners to use their tongue to locate the G-spot.

Using the tongue to feel the tissue which is rougher than the rest of the vagina wall brings a woman to mind-blowing multiple orgasms which in some cases may not be achieved for years with the manhood.

For men who suffer from premature ejaculation, oral sex is a very good way to help her get sexual pleasure before you enter her a�� especially if the duration of intercourse is likely to be short due to premature ejaculation. This means that if your partnera��s manhood is not that a�?a�?powerfula��a�� a tongue can come in handy as it is the easiest way to orgasm!

There are general rules which should be known when it comes to going down on your partner such as no biting, no spitting and one should be very gentle. If you know that you will love your partner to go down on you, please make sure you are clean-shaven and never pee just before the game as it is a turn-off.

Then the other controversial issue which comes up whenever people discuss licking and sucking is of swallowing the ejaculate. This is a personal preference with some not minding at all while others find it unappealing. For some, they want the benefits which are said to come with ejaculation such as being good for skin and some have even claimed it cures cancer. Generally for most, ita��s about the salty taste! It is important to spit or swallow immediately to keep the ejaculate from entering any cuts on the inside of the mouth.

It is not disgusting as those who go down on their partners have always been appreciated and considered fabulous lovers.

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