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YOU know, it is easier for some people to get intimate with someone than to kiss them.
Kisses are very intimate, especially kisses on the mouth as they reveal the truth about how your partner feels about you. It is not normal not to kiss in a relationship. If you are in a relationship where you get excuses for kisses, wake up!
One of the greatest things you can do to keep intimacy alive in any relationship is to kiss each other on a regular basis. I am talking about kissing, a deep one not just a peck on the cheek or the forehead.
Save those pecks for your nieces and nephews. Relationship satisfaction comes in the form of physical touch, holding hands, physical contact and mouth-to-mouth kissing.
When there’s a lack of kissing in a relationship, intimacy can fade fast and it is a sign that things are not fine. It seems as if it’s easy to pretend and just do cover-up sex, but kissing becomes a NO go area.
That is the reason there are some people with kissing friend’s contracts. They will have feelings for each other, but there will be certain circumstances beyond their power.
Keep in mind that hugs are great too. I strongly encourage any couple who is having a hard time with their physical connection to incorporate hugs into their routine.
Just understand that a kiss is more powerful and therefore more necessary to the viability of any romantic relationship.
You should feel comfortable kissing your partner. But if your partner doesn’t like to express affection or make eye contact with you, it could be a sign they don’t feel good about your relationship romantically or they don’t feel emotionally close to you.
Of course, there are some people who don’t like kissing in general, but there’s a difference between not liking kissing and not liking to kiss your partner.
If you feel like your partner doesn’t like to kiss you, you should communicate.
Try to see where they are coming from and do not ignore that red flag. Simply make an observation about how your intimacy has changed.
Tell them how it makes you feel and never allow lovemaking to happen without kissing. You can have a lot of great sex, but how many mind-blowing kisses will you have?
Not all men vocalise their feelings. Some feelings can only be conveyed through physical touch.
When a man kisses you because he missed you, it’s an embrace that will engulf your entire body. You can’t help but get lost in each other.
In that kiss, there are a multitude of emotions, eagerness, hope, boldness, affirmation, trust and confidence.
Kissing will also help re-affirm your attachment to them. If there is no longer any touching and kissing in a relationship you are downgrading to being roommates.
When a relationship has gotten to this stage, couples often try to get back into the routine of having sex. This is a good idea, but you shouldn’t necessarily just jump right into the sack.
Start with hand-holding, hugs and kisses as a gentler way to re-introduce yourselves to that kind of romantic intimacy, as both partners need to feel comfortable with this level of intimacy before they can re-introduce sex into their relationship.
Once a couple becomes comfortable with kissing, they often find that more intimate steps simply follow along naturally.
If you find your relationship faltering or turning into a roommate situation, refocus it with a kiss!
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