Nude pictures can ruin you!

Vuyelwa Sibindi
THE urge to a�?turn ona�? your man may tempt you to send him some saucy pictures to get him thinking about you throughout the day but the truth is you never know on whose hands the pictures will land.

Many women especially those in long distance relationships, want to keep the fire in their relationships burning and forget that those pictures can either make or break you. The nude pictures may excite your man for the period that he holds the title of being your man but do we ever think of what will happen in the event of a break-up?

Men usually ask for nudes and you obviously want to keep him happy so you will do as he asks or it can be your own individual decision trying to spice up your love life. With many women being victims of revenge porn it is best to try other ways of exciting your man than to wake up one day having your a�?goodiesa�? being circulated on social media.

Ita��s a good initiative to keep your man interested and eating out of your hand,A� after all ita��s your duty to keep him satisfied but remember by sending these pictures you are giving him ammunition over you. My sisters, always remember not to give anyone power over you.

Some clever ones out there opt to hide their faces when taking nude pictures but again, someone can still be able to identify you even with your face hidden.

We dona��t live in isolation after all and as much as we want to keep our relationships going, your career can be ruined by those pictures. What if the pictures land in your employera��s phone? Even though they can sympathise with you, there could be grounds to fire you.

One day you will go job hunting, can you imagine the face of your future employer when they decide to do a background check and bam! Nude pictures for the world to see. Your dream job will remain just a dream over a picture taken in the heat of the moment.

One picture is never enough. Your man will keep on demanding them and once you start sending them you have to keep on delivering. So with time you have to get creative with your angles, changing sexy lingerie and trying sultry and alluring poses.

The more you experiment the more damaging the pictures get and once they are out in the public you are done for good and your phone might get stolen meaning that your pictures will definitely land in the hands of the wrong person who will not hesitate to share them with anyone who is willing to see.

Being sexy and keeping your man happy is not a crime but it should not cost you your dignity.