Sam’s 35th birthday that never was

 Trust Khosa

APRIL 1 is a special day on the calendar for the late Oliver “Tuku” Mtukudzi’s family and friends.

It’s a day the late Sam Mtukudzi was born and tomorrow he was supposed to turn 35. 

Prior to Sam’s death, they used to throw parties or host exclusive dinners for the late crooner, when he was not on tour. Sam died on March 15, 2010, along with his confidante and sound engineer, Owen Chimhare, in a road accident.

He died at a time the family was making the final countdown to his 21st birthday celebrations.

Sadly, the celebrations were called off following his death on the Bulawayo Highway in Kuwadzana Extension.

Nine years later, his mother Daisy was to face more misery when national hero Tuku also died.

“On the 1st of April, we were supposed to celebrate my late son’s 35th birthday since he died when we were about to mark his 21st birthday,” says Daisy.

“I can’t believe my son is gone and 13 years after his death, it feels like yesterday.

“I still miss all the surprise parties that we used to throw for him as a family, especially exclusive dinners when he was not on tour.

“He was a busy man who could forget his own birth date and we had to remind him it’s his birthday.   

‘‘I don’t know what kept him busy but I guess he was concentrating more on his career.”

Daisy, who feels devastated without Sam and her husband, says she gets comfort from the music the two produced.

She, however, said she had deferred Sam’s birthday commemorations.

“As a family, we are planning something in honour of our son and we want fellow artists to come and celebrate with us.

“It’s unfortunate that most artists are booked for the greater part of April.

“In April, we are going to be celebrating the Easter Holidays soon, which are set to be followed by the Independence celebrations.

“I have also learnt that the Victoria Falls Carnival will be held at the end of April, which makes it a busy month for our artists,” she said.

Daisy hailed the nation for providing her with comfort and sympathy after losing the two most important men in her life.

“I’m grateful to the people who still give me comfort following the loss of Sam and Oliver.

“I now know the people who genuinely love me and those who are two-faced. 

“I have learnt to mind my own business and to continue working hard as a widow.”