Gabriel Manyeruke
AS the first term of the year draws to a close, now is the perfect moment to pause and reflect on your accomplishments.
Have you excelled academically, participated in extracurricular activities or demonstrated admirable character traits that would make your parents proud?
Or are there areas where you feel you could have done better?
These are important questions to ask yourself honestly.
With schools closing this week, you have the opportunity to evaluate the term that has passed.
Some of your peers may be celebrated for their achievements, while others might cause disappointment to their families.
Which side of this divide do you aspire to be on?
Reflecting on leadership and communication skills
Were you entrusted with leadership roles this term?
Perhaps you served as class captain, a club leader or headed extracurricular activities.
Leadership is more than just a title; it represents trust, responsibility and the ability to inspire others.
If you held such roles, take pride in the recognition you have earned.
If not, reflect on how you can work towards gaining that trust in the future.
Also, consider your communication skills.
Have you practised expressing yourself clearly, whether in class discussions, public speaking or teamwork? Effective communication is a key skill that shapes how others perceive you.
If you have made progress here, you are already paving the way for future success.
Appreciating your parents’ sacrifices
Your parents or guardians have made significant sacrifices to provide you with the best opportunities, from paying school fees to supporting your daily needs and encouraging your endeavours.
Have you rewarded their efforts with dedication and commitment to your education?
Take a moment to assess whether your grades and behaviour reflect how seriously you take your studies.
Remember, your parents value not only academic success but also your appreciation of their support, shown through your determination and hard work.
Achievements beyond awards
Success is not just about certificates, awards or trophies — though these are valuable.
It is also about the skills you have developed, the resilience you have shown and the friendships you have nurtured.
These intangible achievements often have lasting impact.
Have you been dedicated to your studies, actively engaged in class and collaborative in sports or group activities?
Success is multifaceted, encompassing traits like creativity, determination and responsibility — qualities highly valued by parents and teachers alike.
Discipline
How has your behaviour been this term?
Have you stayed out of trouble or have disciplinary issues required intervention from school administrators?
Poor behaviour not only disappoints your parents but also damages their trust in you.
If discipline has not been your strong point, view this as an opportunity for change.
Discipline is foundational to success, reflecting focus, respect and responsibility.
Will your parents celebrate you?
As you head home for the break, imagine how your parents will perceive your report card or feedback from your teachers.
Will they feel proud and excited or disappointed over your achievements?
Remember, earning their pride involves more than academic excellence; it is about showing maturity, growth and the willingness to improve.
Are you giving them enough reasons to celebrate you?
Growth beyond the physical
Are you growing in ways that truly matter?
Growth is not just about physical development — it is about becoming wiser, more responsible and more capable.
Reflect on whether you are learning and growing in areas like critical thinking, problem-solving and emotional intelligence.
Do not let your physical age progress while your academic and personal growth stagnates. Commit to developing in all aspects of your life, becoming someone others look up to.
Using the break to plan ahead
The term break is an opportunity to reflect, recharge and refocus.
Evaluate your successes and shortcomings this term and use this time to set goals for the next one.
Strive to be a well-rounded achiever who excels academically, actively participates in extracurricular activities and demonstrates strong character.
As you leave school, ask yourself: What will your parents or guardians think when they see you this holiday?
Will they see a shining star full of promise or someone requiring clarity and direction?
Choose to be the former and make your next term your best one yet.
Gabriel Manyeruke is an author and educator at Wise Owl High School in Marondera. Contact details: 0774122288, manyeruke4@ gmail.com




