Ingxabano zabazali ziyancindezela amalungelo abantwana

Pumulani Mpofu

Ingxabano zabazali ziyancindezela amalungelo abantwana.

Kukhona ingxabano ezibakhona ezimulini ezidala ukuba abanye bacine bengasakhulumisani.

Esikhathini esinjalo kubakhona abuhlukuluzekayo ngalezingxabano njalo kuvame ukuba ngabantwana ngoba bona lokhu okubangwa ngabadala kuyabe kungaphathelananga labo kodwa kusuke kubeyibo abathwala nzima kakhulu.

UThubelihle  ngomunye wabantwana abazithola besebunzimeni ngenxa yengxabano eyabakhona ebazalini bakhe.

UThubelihle yintombazana eleminyaka engamatshumi amabili. Abazali bakhe uThembani loRuth  babethathene kodwa kwasuka kwaba lokuxabana okwenza behlukana.

Bathi besehlukana uThubelihle eleminyaka eyisithupha wamtshiya loyise wathi yena ngeke enelise ukuhamba lomntwana amgcine.

UThubelihle wakhula ehlala labakibo kayise ngoba unina angelathando lokuhlala laye ngenxa yengxabano yakhe abalayo loyise.

Usizi lwaba yikuthi behlukana bengakamthathisi incwadi yokuzalwa ngakho wafunda wacina engenelisanga ukuthi abhale imihloliso yakhe yeO-level.

Ekwehlukaneni kukaThembani loRuth akuzange kwaba lokukhulumisana okuhle ngakho akukho owayefuna ukuncenga omunye kumbe ukukhuluma lomunye baze balibala ukuba kukhona umntwana abalaye bendawonye.

UThubelihle wakhula ehlala loyise logogo wakhe unina engakaze ambone laye unina engazake amdinge.

Waqala manje uThubelihle ukuthi yena sefuna ukuthathelwa incwadi yokuzalwa ngoba efuna ukuqhubeka efunda, waqala engathi uyayivika indaba uyise ngoba engelancwadi zesibhedlela ezifana lekhadi lesibhedlela le-birth record njalo engalaso isifiso sokuqala ukudinga uRuth ngemva kweminyaka eminengi kangaka, kodwa njengoba umntwana wayesefuna incwadi yokuzalwa kwasokumele aqale ukumdinga ethanda engathandi.

Waqonda la uRuth ayehlala khona ngakibo wathola kulonina kaRuth labanawakhe lodadewabo wabika ukuba umntwana usefuna ukuthathelwa incwadi yokuzalwa kodwa kwakhanya ukuba labo abalasifiso sokusiza.

UThubelihle wadana esizwa lokhu wasesithi kungcono ahambe loyise bayezama ukuyathatha kodwa bafika baziswa ukuba kumele umama abekhona loba sebelayo i-birth confirmation record.

Asihlanganeni kuviki elizayo

Umlobi uthinteka ku trinitytrust6gmail.com, www.trinityproject.biz <http://www.trinityproject.biz>, 0773195055, 09881508

Related Posts

Kutsha izakhiwo ezintathu enzikini yedolobho lakoBulawayo

Raymond Jaravaza IZAKHIWO ezintathu ezisenzikini yendawo yamabhizimusi koBulawayo zilumathe umlilo ngoLwesibili emini. Okwakhathesi, izicitshamlilo zeBulawayo Fire Brigade ziphakathi komsebenzi kulindawo esemgwaqweni kaLobengula Street ku-3rd lo 4th Avenue. Izimota eziyisithupha zokucitsha…

IBosso ibonga abasekeli

Nkosilathi Sibanda IQEMBU leHighlanders selibonge bonke abasekeli balo abahambe eGweru ukuyakhuza iqembu kumdlalo walo leTelOne ngoMgqibelo. Kumbiko okhitshwe liqembu ngoMvulo ekuseni, iBosso ithe uthando lwabasekeli kaluqhubeke, njalo lukhuthaza abadlali, abaqeqetshi…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

×
×