Live out your fantasies

ITaï¿½ï¿½S DECEMBER and everyone seems to be ready to have fun and just enjoy life.

Unfortunately this time around, most people seem to be worried about cash which is either in the bank or not there at all.

Whoever said for people to have a great time they need money, might have been offside because a couple can still have great time and memorable festive season without spending much. My sisters, this time around I am challenging you to make a killing in the bedroom and have the ever memorable festive season.

With most couples, sex has become predictable and it should not be that way, so come on take it to another level and change its rhythm this time around!

Give him a festive season he would eternally remember, inscribe sexual memories he would smile when he reminisces about your sexual escapades after the holidays.

After all this is the time when both of you are free, make it count by all means necessary, use the opportunity to iron out a few bedroom creases especially sexuallyrelated ones.

Get out of the closet and know your partneraï¿½ï¿½s sexual fantasies. Believe me, everyone has got a sexual fantasy! This time around, people are taking a break from their busy schedules, since couples will be spending more time together, be open and share your fantasies. Let them know from the start that you see them as a vital part of your sexual dream-life, which can be both flattering and intriguing.

A great way to do this is informing your partner that they are an essential part of your fantasy. You can say, aï¿½?Sometimes when weaï¿½ï¿½re having sex, I imagine youaï¿½ï¿½aï¿½? No man will turn down such an offer and it will be the beginning of more erotic scenes.

Communication might be the key to developing an active and fulfilling sex life, but it shouldnaï¿½ï¿½t end once you say aï¿½?I want to try something different in the bedroom.aï¿½?

When youaï¿½ï¿½re exploring sexual fantasies, itaï¿½ï¿½s a smart idea to keep up an ongoing conversation about whataï¿½ï¿½s working and whataï¿½ï¿½s not. Because you might finally try that act which has always haunted you since teenage hood, but only to realise that there are certain aspects you LOVED and others you didnaï¿½ï¿½t. That doesnaï¿½ï¿½t mean that you failed, it just means you are learning. Remember during such a time you are exploring and first time might not be as good as second or third time because you will have mastered your game.

Just try to keep the lines of communication open while youaï¿½ï¿½re testing out new fantasies. Everyone is unique, customise your experience to discover what works best for you, both individually and as a couple.

Maybe someone is wondering on what fantasies I am talking about, let me share the few I have heard from friends, get it right they are not my fantasies, but shared ones! I will begin with women fantasies which include making love while putting on heels, change of sex position, obviously not the missionary one, having sex in the kitchen or shower, having ice-cream from his manhood, women like to be cuffed and spanked during the game.

Master and slave is the perfect sexual fantasy for them….. and the list goes on and on.

As for men, they got fantasies such as having sex in the car or office, having it just outside maybe next to a swimming pool looking at the stars, sleeping with you while putting on work uniform and lots more, better find out what your partneraï¿½ï¿½s fantasy is!

The change in sexual scenery and script will create a sexual chemistry like the one you had in the beginning, when butterflies were flying and just one kiss turned you on. Also, since you already know him, he may have mentioned some of his sexual fantasies already, or shot out some hints.

Time to be his romantic sex heroine and bring his sexual fantasies to life!

FEEDBACK

You know the one thing that ladies do that turn off men? You are getting cozy and all then you hear the lady say, aï¿½?am coming.aï¿½? She goes to the toilet and you hear her urinating!!What the f*** is that? Before we start touching and getting into the groove, go do wiwi than to disturb the rhythm. You know when the lady returns from the toilet as men we feel she is now dirty and touching the g-spot is like kubata weti. You get the drift. Ladies should just stop the bad habit.

I like the women forum as it teaches a lot.

I was touched by your article in the B-Metro of 2 to 8 December. Bring more…

Hie sister. Mina what turns me off is a lady who talks too much and just goes to the toilet before we start.

When people become one flesh for maybe 6-8 years, I donaï¿½ï¿½t think there will be time for caressing each other because ropa rafanana, you would see that a man can end up having one round in 20-25 minutes.

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