Never forget Fathera��s Day

Nhlalwenhle Ncube

FATHERa��S Day was designed to honour the men who acknowledge their children and hold their roles as dads in high regard!

I was really disappointed with the results I got on Monday morning after Fathera��s Day when I checked from my friends, colleagues and relatives on how their Sunday (Fathera��s Day) had been. Some did not even know that it had been their day and those who were aware were disappointed because their partners had not said or done anything on that special day.

Sisters, if you never did or said anything to your partner then know that you have to pull up your stockings and pay up because by going silent you sent a big message. It is as if you were saying the man in your life is not worth to be celebrated or does not deserve it.

Believe me, those very small things do matter in a relationship! I know women are so particular with their birthdays, anniversaries and the Mothera��s Day. Why then do you choose to ignore Fathera��s Day.

Anyway before I go any further, thumbs up to all those who remembered the day and made their partners feel like real men.

I know someone might try to come up with excuses on why they ignored the day, but better keep that to yourself because I believe no matter your partnera��s weaknesses, he has some characteristics you can cherish and might be the reason you are still together.

Sisters, you should know that men need to be loved, cared for just as much as you do. Shower your partner with love and see for yourself the outcome. You know at times when you observe a certain couple from a distance, you realise that love has faded away from the way they speak and do their things. As a woman, even after marriage do not relax telling yourself that he is all yours because love needs to be cultivated, do not let it die!

Become your husbanda��s dream girl. Your husband should take you as his dream girl and exciting wife. If you become a careful and thrilling wife, believe me, no one will ever be able to snatch your husband. You know at times some women invite divorce for themselves by having a carefree attitude. Everyone needs to be loved.

Sisters, strive to be your partnera��s wife and mistress. Let me remind you what a mistress does. A mistress will never forget Fathera��s Day or his birthday, why? They know that a mana��s ego counts and showing him how much he is appreciated, it makes him feel good and want to do everything that keeps you happy.

Let there be joy in the house, do everything with love and happiness!

When you want to be the only wife and mistress in your husbanda��s life learn to treat him like a baby or job. I know most women will do anything to keep their jobs and will go out of their way to make sure that their children are happy. The way you treat these two should also be applied when it comes to the man in your life.

All those who forgot Fathera��s Day, it is not yet late to celebrate as we are still in the month of June. You do not need money for the celebrations, but just come up with a good idea and do something unique which will make him know that he is the a�?real man.a��

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