No thanks to vibrators

FOLLOWING last weeka��s response, I have received numerous complaints from men who are claiming that their wives prefer vibrators to having sex.

Seriously sisters? If such claims hold any water, then we are in for a big challenge. Are machines already taking over, the last place I expected machines to take the lead was in the bedroom.

This comes after I received a call from one man claiming that his wife had no interest in the bedroom game until he discovered the source of the problem. It was a vibrator, hidden in the wardrobe and only summoned in his absence, to take his role.

Sisters, how many of you do that? If you are part of that clique you have already entered the rabbit hole where getting out wona��t be easy. Vibrators cannot replace the one-eyed monster as it comes with all packs, the biting, spanking, kissing, teasing I can go all day.

The other thing which makes it difficult to adjust after getting used to a vibrator is that no men will ever vibrate inside you, the way a vibrator does. Remember, thata��s a machine!

Of course, the vibratorsa�� craze is everywhere and it seems a woman who does not have one in her wardrobe is missing out on sexual pleasure and old- fashioned, but thata��s just a misconception, you are better with your husbanda��s tool.

That way it clears all the muddy water and unexpected rebuke from your partner, ita��s beyond expectations to compare your man to a vibrator, as he comes with a lot of packs compared to the vibrating sensation, which in the long run becomes addictive and eventually natural sex will become just a starter for you before the real game.

Sisters, like I have always emphasised, communication is key to any relationship. If your man does not satisfy you in bed, talk to him and find initiatives that may improve your sex life. Shutting him out makes the problem even worse because he never gets to know his shortfalls. A vibrator is not a solution and never will it be!

At times I wonder, does this mean there are no longer good men in bed or there is more to what meets the eye?

You know I am failing to understand this vibratora��s issue and to my surprise, at one kitchen tea party, the bride was given a vibrator as a present. This made me realise that the vibrator issue was not a joke and ita��s there to stay. Leta��s not normalise the abnormal.

I have realised women are just getting carried away with the issue of vibrators, but really do you all need them in your wardrobes and do you think your partner will be pleased the day he discovers that he has got an a�?assistanta��.

By buying a vibrator or getting it as a present, it means you believe your partner is underperforming in the bedroom and therefore needs a helper, but instead of looking for another partner, you have chosen to turn to the vibrator for help.

I have discovered that most women buy vibrators after being told that they can have better sex life and reach orgasm.

I believe the vibrator is not the solution, instead you can work on your sex life with your partner instead of turning to the vibrator.

Vibrators are becoming more socially acceptable, but my concern is whether people are aware of negative side effects. They are said to be desensitising the clitoris, getting in the way of human intimacy, or creating unrealistic sexual expectations.

If you get used to using vibrators, you will find it hard to get satisfaction from a man. A vibrator really vibrates when ita��s inside the cookie-jar and believe me no man can be as vigorous as it is. If you start using it and experience the sexual pleasure, chances are you will prefer it to your man and start denying him his conjugal rights. This can result in the breakdown of marriages!

One of the problems with vibrators is that they can make orgasm too easy. Remember, vibrators were initially created to ease the aching hands of all those 19th century doctors masturbating their female clients.

If you use a vibrator to reach orgasm most of the time, your clitoris can start to become used to that one particular type and intensity of stimulation. Unfortunately, there havena��t been any conclusive studies that have shown whether or not an actual physiological dependence can develop, but many women report that frequent vibrator usage makes it harder to reach orgasm in other ways.

Additionally, it is said that if you are used to using a vibrator, you will end up not knowing your G-spots. Sisters, solve issues with your loved ones instead of turning to vibrators because you are destroying your sex life.

Sisters, do not start things which will make you regret for the rest of your life. I believe a vibrator is no go area and just check how your sex life has changed since you started using it? The reason you are hiding it from your partner, ita��s because you are aware you are doing an unforgivable sin which will tear him apart.

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