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AS schools close and the holiday season begins, parents and guardians need to be extra cautious about the safety of their children. With more free time and relaxed routines, children may be more vulnerable to potential dangers.
In this article, we will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to keep your children safe during the holidays.
Discuss boundaries
During the holidays, children may encounter new people, including friends and family members. It’s essential to empower your children to say no to unwanted touches, pictures or favours from adults or other children.
Teach them that it’s okay to set boundaries and that they can always come to you if they feel uncomfortable.
Pay attention to signs of child abuse
Many cases of child abuse go unreported because adults dismiss children’s concerns or assume that a trusted family member or friend would never harm a child.
However, the truth is that 90 percent of children are sexually abused by someone they know well and 70 percent by a family member. Be alert to changes in your child’s behaviour and don’t hesitate to ask questions or seek help if you suspect something is wrong.
Teach your children to avoid keeping secrets
Secrets are often used by abusers to keep children silent. Explain to your child that secrets are usually about something unsafe or bad. Encourage them to tell you or a trusted adult if anyone asks them to keep a secret.
Limit one-on-one situations
One-on-one situations between your child and another adult should be limited, if possible. Try to create opportunities for observable interactions and consider dropping by unannounced, to check on your child. This can help prevent potential abuse.
Manage your stress as a parent
The holiday season can be stressful and increased commitment and financial demands can impact families. Take time to de-stress and calm down when you feel overwhelmed. This can help prevent physical abuse or neglect.
Keep track of your child when out of the home
Before a family trip or outing, talk to your child about staying within your reach and what to do if they get lost. Teach them to look for a “safe stranger,” such as a mother with children or a security guard.
Discuss age-appropriate safety issues
Talk to your child about safety issues in a calm and non-fearful manner. Explain that it’s not what people look like that makes them unsafe, but what they ask a child to do.
Make sure your child knows your cell phone number
In case of an emergency, make sure your child knows your cell phone number. This can help them stay in touch with you if something happens.
By following these tips and being vigilant, you can help keep your child safe during the holiday season.
Remember, protecting children is a priority and it’s always better to err on the side of caution.
Dr Manners Msongelwa is an author, teacher and youth coach. He can be contacted on +263 771 019 392.
