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Arron Nyamayaro
APOSTLE Daniels has said there is no shame in being single and women should not be forced into rushing into marriage when they have not yet found their right partners.
Apostle Daniels and Evangelist Nelly Gwatidzo addressed the challenges many women face in their pursuit of marriage.
The conversation took place during the launch of the book ‘The Waiting Wife’, which was written by Dr Tatenda Matirongo. Apostle Daniels, from Gateway Ministries, highlighted a troubling trend.
“Women aspiring for marriage often feel pressured to showcase their bodies and appear desperate.”
He noted that some women go to great lengths, spending excessively on their appearances and bathing multiple times a day, believing it will attract potential partners.
He warned women who are posting themselves naked on social media, in a bid to attract men, that such an approach will haunt them when they get married.
“While fasting and prayer are essential, a woman’s character is her most important asset when seeking a spouse,” Apostle Daniels said.
“Marriage is a choice, not an obligation. Love is a natural force, not something that can be bought or worn like clothing.”
He pointed out that empowered women, who often have successful careers and financial independence, can unintentionally intimidate potential partners. “These women may find themselves single and alone, sometimes seeking partners among older or widowed men,” he said.
He urged hopeful brides to embrace humility and seek guidance from elders, recalling historical customs where families played a vital role in matchmaking.
“There is no shame in being single, some marriages lead to quick divorces,” he said.
“It’s better to be with someone you truly love, even if they lack wealth. Wealth can come later.
“Unoroorwa nemurume anemari asi yavepedo kuenda nekuda kwenzira yayakauya nayo woramba asinamari avekudakuropafadzwa naMwari.
“Wealth cannot define true love and happy marriage,” he said.
Evangelist Gwatidzo echoed this sentiment, emphasising the importance of self-respect.
“Women must protect themselves from exploitation,” she said. “Don’t cheapen yourself, strive to add value to your life and avoid immorality.
“Believe in your uniqueness, you are worthy of love just as you are.” She also warned against the dangers of substance abuse and making decisions under the influence. “While some are engaging in illicit drugs, others are writing books.
“As you wait, understand life’s dynamics. First, love yourself and value who you are before seeking love from others.”
Evangelist Gwatidzo encouraged establishing healthy habits and maintaining honesty before marriage. “Develop a positive attitude,” she urged.
Dr Matirongo, the author of ‘The Waiting Wife’, expressed gratitude towards both speakers for illuminating the book’s themes.
“As someone yet to marry, my reflections on love inspired me to share my insights, hoping they resonate with others on their journeys.” The event was attended by a number of women and Thembalami provided entertainment.
Mathew Masinge