There’s more to a relationship than sex

HAVING some sexual chemistry and spark is essential for any relationship, but it’s important to not forget the whole love and respect part of it, too.

If you and your partner only have one commonality (the bedroom), it might be a sign your relationship is too dependent on sex and could use a few extra points on the romantic end.

So, if you’re always darting for the bed upon meeting, it might prevent you from getting to know your partner on a deeper level, to really see whether there’s a true connection there. Below are some indicators:

1 You Don’t Talk About Non-Naked Matters

Sure, communication about what you like sexually is always great for a relationship, but if the dialogue stops there, it could mean you’re both too dependent on sex.

“Frequently, one or the other partner wants more or less intimacy. If you don’t seem to have a connection beyond the sexual, the first question to ask is, is that how you both truly want it? If not, the next question is, can you build in more depth from where you are now.

2 You’re Always Touching In Public

If you’re only seeing each other late at night (for sex) and refuse to get to know each other’s friends and family, it could mean that you’re not looking at the relationship from an emotional, long-term standpoint, and it’s too heavily revolved around sexual chemistry.

If you notice any of these signs, it could mean your relationship might only exist in the bedroom, and less in the outside world. If you’re both on board, it should be fine, but it’s best to check in with your partner to see where he or she stands. — Online

Related Posts

Natasha Mlalazi shines on ‘Blessed Assurance’

Langalakhe Mabena, [email protected] Up and coming Gospel musician Natasha Mlalazi is steadily carving a niche for herself in the game after delivering a powerful rendition of the Christian hymn Blessed…

Inyathi man fined US$200 for assaulting gold-sale rival with brick

  Fortune Makoni [email protected] A 30-YEAR-OLD Inyathi man has been fined US$200 or five months in prison for assaulting a rival with a brick and a stone following a dispute…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *