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Brian Ngosi
Life can be full of drama, and you may get caught up in the middle of a storm.
Or it could be just be the case of life being routine, where things just happen and you are just part of the puzzle, with little to no purpose or excitement.
Your life journey should have the fulfillment of purpose.
You need to have a reason for doing what you do, and when you do it.
There is a moment in life where you just need to take a walk.
Whether things are working out or not, you need to find yourself time to just take a walk.
You are not giving up or giving in. It is a moment to afford yourself time to have a good reflection of your purpose in your life.
That is a time that you openly check on the direction you are taking. It is a time when you can question everyone and everything.
Allow yourself time to understand how you got where you are, and where you are going.
You take a walk to assure yourself that you have the courage to weather the storm.
On a walk, you can confirm if you are best placed to endure or enjoy the calm in your life.
While on a walk you are able to self-guarantee your own life based on reality. This is where you cannot afford to lie to yourself.
You self-introspect and expose yourself to your own strengths and weaknesses on a walk.
If you take a walk you will relate to the peace that surrounds you when you are alone. Or feel the chaos that floods you when free from destructions.
A process with little to no destruction and can be very insightful.
It takes a lot of courage for one to be alone, and be able to reflect. Most of the times you want to pretend to be busy and crowded.
You drown yourself in your environment and will use that as an excuse. You can say you did not see it coming, which may be true, because you were just going with the wind and pressures of each day.
Life loses value if you cannot confidently define your purpose and defend the choices you make in life.
You end up doing things that you don’t want, things that destroy what you stand for if you don’t make time to take a walk.
You need to locate yourself in your environment to be able to confirm or challenge what you stand for.
Every time you walk consider it a walk to freedom. There will never come a day that you question who you are and where you are going unless you take a walk.
Nature has it that a dream occurs to you when alone during a quiet and serene time. Follow through your vision and always afford yourself time to check your progress towards the set goal(s).
The only person you can blame if your life derails is you. Be in charge even when things are going wrong, that allows you to bounce back and be on top of the situation.
There is a time when you need to accept defeat, go through it and start a new page.
You also need to take charge when things are going on well so that you are able to maintain that trajectory.
The good and bad should happen when you are quite aware and in control especially of how you react and remedy the situation.
On a walk, you calm yourself and accept reality which will allow you to be in full control and not lose the plot.
Alone on a walk, that is when bold and rare decisions are made. You do not want to bump into success least you have a heart attack from excitement.
You need to have it on good grounds and embrace the blessings to avoid being destroyed by your own success.
It is when you take a walk that you see the sun rising and prepare yourself accordingly.
On a walk you can safely identify where the whole plan derails such that when darkness strikes you are calm enough to weather the storm.
It is when you embrace that you cannot keep flying that you will manage the dark days with an open mind.
You do not want to endanger yourself and society because you do not have control of your success or misfortune both of which can and will occur to you.
Life is not about what happens to you but how you manage what happens to you.
Your life is a product of the choices that you make, make it a habit to take a walk more often so as to keep yourself in full control.
*Brian Ngosi is a life coach and motivational writer with a desire to inspire individuals to make a difference for the greater good of society. Brian can be interacted with on: [email protected], Facebook #BN_inspired or WhatsApp +263772440383
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