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MONDAY
I AM a man on a mission Diary.
I can go two ways with this issue, either wait for my wife to serve me the divorce papers or I can take measures to fix this marriage. I decided this morning to take great measures to fix the marriage.
TUESDAY
I got hold of my relatives and told them of the situation. I spoke to my mom as well because I do not know the way to go on this one.
My mom said I should be quiet and try and behave myself. She said she will organise with the relevant “tetes” to get hold of my wife’s family and so forth.
This is where I appreciate tradition and culture because unlike western laws, it is not that simple to just walk away from a marriage, everything has a process and everyone gets involvement until all is resolved amicably. Oh God, I pray they help me keep my wife.
WEDNESDAY
My accountant told me today that my wife has been asking about our assets and liabilities. I know what that is about.
She wants to know what she is due to get from the marriage if we divorce. Heish! I am not sure what to do now. This is so real now. I need to get a lawyer just in case.
THURSDAY
Heish, my wife looked at me today with such hate. I could not believe it. The maid said a woman had called my wife a week or two ago claiming to be my mistress and said a whole lot of nonsense. She said the woman even claimed she was pregnant. She said the woman gave my wife evidence of the affair in the way of dates and times we met, etc.
Ah, I want to drive to Harare and kill this woman. I never ever had unprotected sex with her. The B*&%$# is lying, and if she is telling the truth, the baby is another man’s one, not mine. I swear, Diary, I did not impregnate this woman, never!
FRIDAY
I tried to get hold of my ex-mistress in Harare, but her phone just rang and rang. I think she knows I know what she did and she wants me to suffer.
She wanted me to beg her to come back. She thinks that my marriage is now over so I will be forced to go back to her. Why on earth would I go back to the whore?
It is like sleeping with the enemy. Had I known how far this would go I would never have pursued this relationship or any of the others. I must figure out how to solve this issue now before there are babies and more evidence.
SATURDAY
Surprisingly my wife stayed home the whole day and played with the kids. It was so beautiful to watch.
Unfortunately she made it clear she did not want to see me around her and the kids. I tried to be stubborn for a bit by staying around the kids.
I knew the baby would want to move from mom to dad constantly, which would force my wife and I to communicate. But after a while, my wife picked the baby up and took him into the house saying she wanted to change him.
I got tired of waiting for her to come back (she probably sat in the lounge waiting for me to leave). I eventually left and went down to the farm with the guys to see what is what.
All I could think about was my wife and what I had done to her. I should meet up with my boys because I think I need to clear my mind for a few hours.
Although being with the boys right now might not be a good idea because those guys think like bachelors even though they are married. Most of them are not happily married any way. But I just need a break from all this stress.
SUNDAY
The Man of God today asked when my wife and I could see him. I tried to get my wife’s attention but to no avail. I told him I would get back to him. But he said I should just make an appointment and make sure my wife is there.
He said the beginning of all our issues was a man failing to take responsibility for his actions and his family.
He said I need to start now by taking charge of wanting to fix my marriage.
He was right. I made an appointment for Wednesday, the night I know she is home early and has no excuse to not be there.
I pray it is the beginning of repairing our marriage.
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