Do you really get wet . . .?

I FIND it scary therea��re some people with guts to get in between the sheets with a person whose HIV status they dona��t know.

Seriously, how do you even get to an extent of being wet without knowing your partnera��s status?

How do you even explode in pleasure, bite the lower lip and reach an orgasm without knowing your partnera��s status?

Sisters, who does that? Wherea��s your sexual health conscience?

Are sisters so desperate for an orgasm such that they put their health on the line?

One word describes this scenario, ita��s just a�?a�?scarya��a�� and it kills the sexual vibe in any sister who takes her health seriously.

Ita��s funny that most of the times ita��s said some women only ask about a mana��s status after having unprotected sex.

Hey sisters,A� wake up, your life should always come first.

No matter how much you love someone, do not get carried away. That moment of a fling can announce a new chapter into your life, an avoidable chapter in the first place.

Why do you have to take that risk?

Are sisters so gullible and weak that they easily put their health on the line just for a moment of fun and pleasing their partners?

Sadly it seems this will raise more questions than answers. Nevertheless, try by all means to be accountable for your sexual actions.

Remember whatever you do today has serious repercussions and consequences to your life. It might not be instant but, eventual reckless sexual behaviour like unprotected sex has a way of manifesting itself in STIs, STDs and the dreaded HIV.

Avoid a scenario where you will find yourself living a life of regrets because you will be at a point which you will be unable to reverse.

Remember you only have one life, unfortunately we are unlike cats that have nine lives. We only have one shot at it, why cana��t you as a sister make the best of it in terms of your sexual health. Be in charge of your sexual health in as much as the bedroom game sisters!!!!

I know most sisters dread dragging their boyfriends, spouses and husbands to the New Start centres, just because they are stubborn or this might actually drive them away.

As a sister you would rather lose that partner who refuses to be tested. Anyway who said HIV-positive people dona��t have a vibrant sexual life? Ita��s all about knowing where you and your partner stand and taking the necessary measure for the benefit of you, your offsprings and even your partner.

Like I said in the beginning, sisters, I will say it again, how do you reach an orgasm while having unprotected sex with a partner whose HIV status is a mystery to you? There are many ways these days to know your status without even going to the New Start Centre, like self-test kits.

I think all sisters have heard the National Aids Council singing the same song time and again in relation to knowing your partnera��s status before sleeping with them. The nature of humans to ignore such important facts about their sexual life baffles many, especially the young couples who seem concerned about taking morning after pills than knowing the status of their partner. Ita��s imperative as you undress yourself, remove your pants and encouragingly kiss your new sexual partner to be well informed about their HIV status. Anything less than that is a recipe for disaster or a sexual health accident waiting to happen.

Unfortunately, many are in the habit of simply asking their partners about their HIV status and they take the reply as if ita��s a result from the New Start Centre. Ita��s about time you visit the New Start Centre and get real results.

Just in case, a married someone reading this article has rushed to say this is not for a�?usa�? the married. Hey ita��s for everyone, married or not married, you should always know your partnera��s status. It is always for the best!

Till next time.

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