Doek and Slay event has helped transform communities

The Doek and Slay event has resonated with women across Zimbabwe, providing them with an opportunity to come together, celebrate womanhood and enjoy a unique experience that goes beyond traditional social gatherings.

Originating in Harare in March last year, the event has gained widespread popularity and expanded to other cities such as Kadoma, Gweru, and Bulawayo in a short time.

Anesu Rwanga, the creative mind behind the event, revealed that the inspiration for such gatherings came from observing his mother’s limitations in social activities during his upbringing.

“I was motivated to create this event because I grew up in an environment where my mother was very restricted. She wasn’t allowed to do many things, and going to church was her only outing. We saw this pattern throughout our lives, and I discovered that even going to the shops, my father was the one who did the grocery shopping while my mother was restricted from doing many things.

“This inspired me to create an event that celebrates women and their freedom, where they can express themselves and have fun,” said Rwanga.
His goal was to provide women with a safe space to enjoy themselves and have their own time without facing judgment from anyone.

“I also realised that many women are shy to dance or express themselves when men are around. Ladies want to be in their own space where they can dance without anyone holding them or pressuring them to dance with them. This is why at Doek and Slay events, everyone is free to dance without judgment or harassment.

“This is a safe space for ladies to enjoy themselves without fear or worry. It’s a place where they can truly be themselves and not have to worry about the judgment of others,” he explained.

Rwanga said his main motivation for organising these events is his passion for empowering women and witnessing them enjoy themselves. The events have also had a positive impact on his personal life, as the proceeds from the events have enabled him to run a home in Mutoko called Nyaradzai.

“I’m passionate about these events, not just because they’re a source of income, but because they’re also an opportunity to empower women and give back to the community. I feel happy seeing women enjoy themselves and being able to support each other.

“We’re also running a home in Mutoko called Nyaradzai, where we are looking after six children. We hope to expand our reach to 30 children. So, these events are not only for entertainment, but also for the greater good of the community,” said Rwanga.

He said what sets their event apart is the unique stage setup and distinctive promotional materials, ensuring that it stands out from other events.

The upcoming first Doek and Slay movement in 2024 will be held in Harare on April 7 at Alex Sports Club. – @TashaMutsiba