Losing a breast: A survivor’s journey of resilience

Robin Muchetu, Senior Reporter
“I USED to avoid taking baths with other women at funerals and other gatherings because of the looks I received due to having only one breast.

People saw me as a freak of nature, but their reactions stemmed from a lack of understanding — their ignorance.”

These words are part of the story of Ms Violet Matika, a 47-year-old caregiver from Bulawayo, who bravely survived breast cancer.

Today, she advocates for early testing among women, sharing her story of resilience and recovery.

Initially, the loss of her breast diminished Ms Matika’s self-esteem. People would stare at her, speaking in hushed tones, clearly taken aback by her altered appearance.

“I discovered I had breast cancer in 2015 while living in South Africa. I had felt a growing lump in my right breast but ignored it. Raised in an African family, I thought such diseases were for white people, much like the common belief that hypertension and diabetes only affect the elderly. I postponed seeking medical help until the lump caused my nipple to excrete a mucus-like substance,” she recounted.

It was then that a colleague raised concerns about breast cancer, prompting Ms Matika to seek medical advice.

She was diagnosed with stage three breast cancer and underwent eight months of chemotherapy, culminating in the removal of the affected breast (mastectomy). Following this, she received radiotherapy to eliminate any remaining cancerous cells and has since committed to a regimen of medication to manage her condition.

“Nine years later, I am thankful to be well. However, it is my crucial advice that women should seek medical help when they notice changes in their bodies. We should not hesitate, had I ignored that lump longer, I could have faced stage four cancer. Any unusual lump, a rash or a change in breast appearance warrants immediate attention,” she emphasised.

Health experts warn that changes in the colour, texture or size can be early indicators of breast health issues. Women are urged to prioritise screenings and not dismiss the warning signs.

Ms Matika also notes that cultural beliefs, including the notion that cancer is a result of witchcraft, often prevent women in some communities from seeking timely medical help.

She acknowledges that losing a breast can leave many women feeling incomplete, which can further impact their self-esteem.

“Today, no one can tell that I have one breast because I wear a prosthetic that helps balance my appearance. This has significantly boosted my confidence,” she explained.

After relocating to Zimbabwe in 2022, Ms Matika has remained healthy but struggles to obtain her medical records from South Africa, which she needs for continued treatment.

“My medical records are still in South Africa, where I was diagnosed and treated. I want them transferred to Mpilo Central Hospital for continuity of care, but the hospital needs to provide a transfer letter, which has been delayed. Without my medical history, proper treatment is challenging,” she lamented.

Despite these challenges, Ms Matika remains hopeful. She credits a health worker who had undergone a double mastectomy for inspiring her to embrace her journey with an untiring attitude.

“Before my operation, it was this woman who showed me her bare chest, proving that life can go on even without breasts. She had faced immense challenges, yet went on to have children and care for them. I decided to proceed with the mastectomy, feeling more empowered,” she recalled.

While Ms Matika has gained confidence in social settings, she admits that finding love remains a challenge, as revealing her condition often scares potential partners away.

As the country observes Pink October, a month dedicated to breast cancer awareness, Ms Matika’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of early detection and the resilience that comes from embracing one’s journey. @NyembeziMu

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