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Solomon Bhumu
Weekender Reporter
THE Mutare Civil Court, presided over by Ms Thandiwe Sibanda, recently heard a case that laid bare the collapse of a troubled marriage between Mary Musariri and her husband, Vincent Mashamba.
Musariri approached the court seeking the dissolution of the union, telling the court that her marriage had crumbled under the strain of abuse, unemployment, and relentless domestic conflict.
She recounted how the problems began less than a year after their wedding, alleging that Mashamba would frequently turn violent without provocation, leaving her fearful and emotionally drained.
“I am fed up with this man. I plead with the court to grant me a divorce as my spouse is very abusive. He beats me up especially when he is drunk. He even fails to support his child as he is jobless,” said Musariri.
The court also heard that at one point, Musariri moved out of their matrimonial home with some household goods because she feared for her safety after the repeated threats.
“I do not feel safe anymore. After the threats, I had no choice, but to leave the matrimonial house with whatever I could carry,” she testified.
Mashamba denied the allegations, and accused Musariri of infidelity.
“My wife has opted for an employed boyfriend. She is no-longer interested in me because I am a loafer,” he claimed.
He further stated that he had been financially dependent on Musariri throughout the marriage, and was made to care of their child when she moved out.
After hearing both sides, Ms Sibanda ruled that the marriage had broken down irretrievably.
She noted that, despite the accusations exchanged by the parties, reconciliation was no longer possible.
Consequently, she ordered the couple’s separation and sharing of their remaining household property.
Musariri was ordered to pay US$70 per month for the child’s upkeep if the child remains in Mashamba’s custody, since she had previously moved out and left the child under his care.
In her closing remarks, Ms Sibanda urged young women to avoid rushing into marriage, advising them to take time to understand a partner’s character and lifestyle before making long-term commitments.
She reminded the estranged couple of their parental responsibilities, emphasising the importance of maintaining stability for the child despite the end of their marriage.
“Young women should not rush into marriage. Take time to understand your partner’s behaviour and way of life before making such a commitment.
“Despite your differences, you both have a duty to maintain stability for your child. Parenthood does not end with the collapse of the marriage,” said Ms Sibanda.
