Of breadwinning, sex in marriage

I AM so excited about the feedback I am getting from last week’s write-up about men’s thoughts on issues women/wives have with them. This week, we conclude the matter. As I said last week, ladies, do not judge your men by this. However, it is close enough. Let’s continue . . .

What’s your opinion about being breadwinners?
It is scary as the breadwinner. It is even scarier if she is earning more money. I want to give her everything she likes, when she wants it. It is hard if I cannot support her fully.

Most men prefer their wives to stay home. Money is the power and the truth is the one with the power has the remote control. When a woman knows she has the money power, most times she uses it against her man and it is humiliating for him.

And most times women do not know when to back down. No man wants to be handed his pocket money each month especially in front of his parents, friends, etc. Most men then tend to find solace in other women, because it untangles the noose around the neck according to the man. But men do respect women who have their own careers, but we must be able to discuss everything and still allow the man to make decisions which are his to make and her to make decisions which are hers to make. And yes some men are intimidated by a woman who makes more money. No man wants to borrow from his wife.

For men, MONEY is POWER. But of course more than money is the power to perform the best sex. Men don’t want to marry weak women.

Let’s talk about sex
This is everything for a man. Even men who claim not to be interested in sex need to feel like they are the gladiators.

We need our wives to be fine (not necessarily body size, it is the way you dress and carry yourself), because there are a lot of other fine women out there and the temptation is real. I might tell you to dress down, but you still need to look good for me and feel good in your skin.

The most attractive thing on a woman is her high self-esteem. Men fear having to give up sex with other women.

Even a guy who has only had sex with one woman will wonder if he has the best one or is there something better out there. So the advice to all wives is to do everything and everything, so not allow your man to wonder whether there is anything better out there. The temptation is great; even for the most faithful man.

Have a blessed week.