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UMLINGISI, odlale kuZalo lakuSbongile & Dlaminis, ubhoboke ngokudlwengulwa aze akhulelwe, okwenziwa yisihlobo sakhe esahamba uMkhosi woMhlanga. URanatefetswe “Rena” Ramosala (41), onguNkosikazi Zondo kuZalo, uthe wayeseleminyaka engu-16 ngesikhathi esehlelwa yila amashwa. Uthe ngakibo baze bathola ngoba esekhulelwe ukuthi yisihlobo sakhe esamkhulelisayo.
“Lesi sehlakalo sangitshiya ngikhulelwe ngisemncane, ngingelalo ulwazi noma ukuqonda okwanele ngesimo engangikuso. Ngangingakwazi ukutshela abazali bami ngoba umnukubezi wayethe uzangibulala. Ngaze ngakwazi ukubhoboka esehambile ekhaya, kutsho ukuthi wayebona ukuthi ngikhulelwe ngoba ngangigula, ngingakwazi ukutshela abazali bami.
Emva kokuzwa ukuthi ngikhulelwe, abazali bami bathatha izinyathelo zokungivikela, bangiyisa kodokotela, kosonhlalakahle lasezikhungweni zomthetho.”
URena uthe loba icala lavulwa kodwa laphelela emoyeni ngenxa yokuthi amapholisa alisukumela sekuphele iminyaka emibili ebelethile.
“Abomthetho bahamba bayobopha umsolwa kodwa baze babuya ingane isileminyaka emibili, bethi beze ngecala lokunukubezwa kwami. Umama wabaxotsha ngoba ethi leli cala lenzeka ingane ingakazalwa, manje izohlukumezeka uma sekugqigqwa enkantolo,” uyilanda kanje indaba yosizi lwakhe.
“Lokho kwaholela ekutheni ngiqhubeke ngempilo ngibhekene lobunzima. Ngicindezelekile futhi ngihlukumezekile ngokwengqondo.”
URena uthe akugcinanga ngalesi sehlakalo kodwa wagcina esedlwengulwa langabanye abantu besilisa ababenza sengathi bazwelana laye kanti bafuna ukumgila.
“Phezu kwalokho, angizange ngivumele ubuhlungu bempilo bunginqinde ekufezeni amaphupho ami. Yize kwakunzima kodwa ngagcina ngisiqedile isikolo futhi ngenza izifundo ezingama-short courses. Ngakhula ngaba umuntu ozimisele ukuvulela abanye indlela, ikakhulukazi abesifazane abake bahlukumezeka.”
URena uthe uqale ukukhuluma ngalesi sigameko esasakaza esiteshini esi-online, iPhly Radio, lapho ayesakaza khona uhlelo lwantambama ngezimpelasonto.
Uthe ukunqanda lesi sihlava emphakathini, usungule inhlangano engenzi nzuzo ebizwa ngoMzokhanyayo Development Community Upliftment Plan, lapho begxila khona ekuqwashiseni umphakathi ngezinkinga ezifana lodlame lobulili, ukunukubezwa ngokocansi, ukuziphatha kwabesifazane lokukhulelwa kwabantu abasha.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, uthe uziphilisa ngebhizimusi alisungulile i-Ezemvelo Ea Batho, athe kulo benza imikhiqizo yokunakekela izinwele lomzimba ebizwa nge-Ea Batho Hair Food, Ea Batho Virgin Hair Growth Oil, Ea Batho Root Revival Hair Spray, Ea Batho Carrot Body Oil, Ea Batho Glow Serum, Ea Batho Inner Thighs Cream ne-Ea Batho Glow Body Lotion Cream.
Uthe usebenzisa ukunukubezwa kwakhe ukuqwashisa lokukhuthaza abantu besifazane. —Isolezwe
