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Latwell Nyangu
Youth Interactive Writer
For many students, the journey begins long before they step foot on a university campus.
It starts at home, where parents and guardians instill values of hard work, perseverance and resilience.
They sacrifice time, energy and resources to ensure their children can pursue their dreams. Whether it’s attending every university play, helping with homework, or simply being a sounding board for aspirations, parents play a pivotal role in shaping a student’s identity.
In the pursuit of success, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of achievement and lose sight of where we started.
As we climb the ladder of success, the temptation arises to let our accomplishments inflate our egos and create distance between us and the humble beginnings that shaped us. However, remembering where we came from and staying grounded along the journey is essential for maintaining perspective, humility, and authenticity.
It can’t be denied that success has a way of changing people, often leading them to develop a sense of entitlement or superiority. Yet, humility is a virtue that transcends achievements and accolades.
This week, I come with a message that goes beyond campus life.
As usual, I write what I see.
Many students become prodigal after achieving some success.
The most important thing we must ensure is to remember where we come from. Do not forget to look after those who supported you during your college days.
It’s about recognising that our accomplishments are not solely the result of our own efforts but they are also influenced by the support, guidance and opportunities provided by others.
By acknowledging our limitations and appreciating the contributions of others, we cultivate a sense of humility that keeps us grounded, regardless of our accomplishments. When individuals become “too big for their boots,” they lose touch with reality and become disconnected from the people and communities that helped them succeed.
Arrogance and hubris replace humility and gratitude, leading them to feel a sense of entitlement and alienating those around them. This attitude hinders personal and professional growth, as it closes the door to learning, collaboration, and empathy.
Ultimately, getting “too big for your boots” can be a recipe for isolation and downfall.
Remembering where we came from is not about dwelling on the past or limiting our aspirations. Rather, it’s about honouring our roots and the people who helped us along the way while embracing the opportunities that lie ahead. By staying grounded in our values and experiences, graduates can overcome complexities of success with grace and humility, remaining true to themselves and the principles that define them.
Success in life is determined not just by our accomplishments and awards, but also by our character and the impact we have on others. If we keep in mind our roots and maintain our humility, we can handle the highs and lows of success with grace.
As we continue to pursue our goals and desires, let us make an effort to respect our path, appreciate our roots, and avoid having a blind eye towards those who supported us.
In the whirlwind of college life, where the thrill of newfound independence dominates daily routines, it’s easy for students to lose sight of the roots that nurtured them.
The journey through academia is undoubtedly exhilarating, filled with breakthroughs and personal milestones.
Yet, amid the excitement, it’s vital to remember the unwavering support of parents and family who have been there every step of the way.
As students move through the rigorous demands of college, those lessons become even more relevant. Late-night study sessions may bring stress and fatigue, but they also serve as reminders of the sacrifices made by those who believed in their potential. It’s crucial for students to take a moment to reflect on this support system and honour the people who have devoted themselves to their success. Achieving a breakthrough, be it landing an internship, acing a challenging exam, or receiving recognition for a project fills students with a sense of accomplishment.
These moments are exhilarating and validate years of hard work.
However, they also present an opportunity for introspection.
Don’t forget to ask yourselves, Who was there cheering you on? Who celebrated your victories, both big and small?
In the rush to embrace newfound success, it’s easy to forget those who paved the way. Remembering to express gratitude to parents and family helps transform personal triumphs into shared celebrations.
A simple phone call, a handwritten letter, or even inviting them to campus events can reinforce the bond that supports a student’s growth. As students transition from academia to the professional world, the importance of honouring their roots becomes even clearer.
The relationships built during college, both personal and professional, can often overshadow familial ties.
Yet, the skills learned from family, communication, empathy, and dedication are invaluable assets in the workplace.
Staying connected with family offers a source of stability as students venture into new territories. Whether facing job interviews or adapting to corporate culture, the guidance and wisdom from parents provide clarity and confidence.
Moreover, sharing experiences with family not only strengthens bonds but also enriches a student’s narrative, reminding them of their journey and the people who helped shape it.
As students embark on their journeys of success, it’s essential to remember that achievements are often built on the foundation of familial support.
When you achieve a milestone, invite your family to celebrate with you.
Whether it’s a dinner or a small gathering, make them a part of your success.
The journey of success should not lead to becoming prodigal sons and daughters, distancing ourselves from the very roots that nurtured our growth.
Don’t let the thrill of breakthroughs lead to estrangement.
Instead, honour your roots and the people who have helped you along the way.
By staying connected and expressing gratitude, you can celebrate your successes without losing sight of where you came from.
In doing so, you not only enrich your own life but also bring a sense of belonging and appreciation that lasts beyond your college years.
Until we meet for a toast.
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