How to be a good listener in church

Felix Angasi Jr and Newton Chilingulo

Most of us have walked out of church saying, “That was an excellent sermon,” even repeating a strong statement or memorable line heard from the pulpit.

You might even have personally thanked the preacher. But when asked what the biblical text was saying, or how the preacher arrived at that point, there’s often silence. We remembered the quote only to miss the argument. Listening to sermons we often latch onto a line here or there, but we don’t always go away having heard what God says in his word.

That reveals something important: listening to a sermon isn’t passive. One of the best ways to grow in studying the Bible is by learning to listen carefully to sermons. Preachers spend hours of their week studying the text; if you listen well you can walk away not only encouraged but further equipped with tools for your own Bible study. Listening to a sermon is warfare. It requires training ourselves to identify the preacher’s main point and to wrestle with the questions the text raises. But how do we do that?

Here are five things to keep in mind as you listen to the sermon this coming Sunday.

1. Look for the Text’s Main Point and Structure

Ask yourself: What was the preacher’s main point, and how did he argue for it? Notice how he built his case. Did he use examples, cross-references, or the careful explanations of words? This requires coming to church with a willingness to think. Today we’re all to well accustomed to consuming information with little critical reflection. But in church we must apply ourselves, actively listening for the preacher’s main argument. So don’t leave your thinking cap at home.

Added to the main point, every good sermon has a structure. Did you notice how the preacher organised his points? Did the structure make it easier for you to follow the flow of the passage? Good structure will help you see the meaning of the text clearly.

2. Pay Attention to the Preacher’s Questions

Preachers often use questions to unpack a passage. As you listen to the sermon, ask yourself: What questions is the preacher asking of the text and how is he answering them? Just like the previous point, as you do this listen for his use of the broader context and cross-references as well as explaining key words or phrases.

Behind every faithful sermon is a preacher who has wrestled with the text, typically through questions. As a listener, you can benefit from that labour by following the questions and tracking his responses. One of the most valuable insights you gain for your own Bible reading isn’t only what conclusions the preacher reaches, but how he gets there.

As you develop this approach of listening to preaching, you’ll also be able to come into sermons with keen questions of your own. Prior study of the passage — even a brief reading — will help you notice what you don’t understand and prepare you to listen more attentively. As you listen, ask yourself: Are my questions mainly about application rather than meaning; did I assume I understood something that I did not; what did the preacher see in the text that I missed?

The Bible is full of answers but listening to sermons is a fight. This struggle hasn’t been made any easier by the rise of phones and all the distractions entailed. Nevertheless, by discovering the right questions you’ll become more able to observe biblical texts carefully; and to bring important but unanswered questions with you to church. This curiosity can sharpen your attention and deepen your understanding.

This means you should come hungry. Bring questions. Desire answers, knowing that God issues many in his word.

3. Question Yourself at the End

When the sermon is over, reflect. Ask yourself: Do I understand the text better now?

Did the preaching help me learn something new, correct something I misunderstood, or deepen what I already knew?

Could I explain it to someone else? Am I able to clearly and faithfully share the meaning of the passage with another person, maybe someone who didn’t make it to church?

How can I apply it to my life?

Pay attention to the applications made by the preacher. Then take time to think and pray about how this same passage applies to your own life, situation, and daily choices. Ask God to help you respond with obedience and faith. In addition to this, think also about the other ways the passage might apply to you.

4. Avoid Common Pitfalls

Don’t listen for application first. Listen first to understand the text itself

Don’t just collect quotes. Look for definitions and arguments

Don’t judge by style, especially if the preacher isn’t dynamic. Rather ask: Is he faithfully presenting the word of God?

Don’t come unprepared. Reading the passage beforehand — even trying to memorise it — will make you eager to listen and help you follow along more easily.

Good listening begins long before the sermon starts. It starts Saturday evening with good rest and prayer. If you show up Sunday morning exhausted and distracted because of poor preparation, it will affect your ability to listen well. Where possible, read the text and pray together as a family the night before.

5. Remember That Listening Is a Discipline

Sermons won’t help you if you aren’t actually listening. Come ready to hear; to remember; and to be changed. Some people find it helpful to take notes. Others simply give their full attention. You’ll know what works best for you. But fight to leave with the preacher’s full argument, not just a few quotes.

Here’s the rub: regardless of how good the preaching is, it won’t benefit you unless you learn to listen well. Proverbs teaches that wisdom does not come merely from hearing good teaching but from listening humbly and responding rightly. “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future” (Proverbs 19:20).

Without this kind of attentive listening, even the best instruction brings no benefit. In fact, refusing to listen leads to spiritual loss. “If one turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination” (Proverbs 28:9).

Listening is an act of discipline. When you listen expositionally, you do not simply walk away with what you already thought about the passage — you gain new insights that sharpen your own understanding of God’s word, changing subsequent readings of it. – tgcafrica.org

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