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Iyatshaya inhliziyo yami nxa ngisiya emacansini
LINJANI Khulu? Ngiyindoda eleminyaka yokuzalwa engu-42. Ngangithethe njalo ngilabantwana abahlanu, abafana abathathu lamantombazana amabili. Umkami ubhubhe nyakenye. Uhlupho lwami yikuthi njengomuntu oyindoda ngiyake ngibe labangane besifazana kodwa zonke izikhathi ngingazama ukuthi sihlangane emacansini inhliziyo yami iyatshaya ngamandla. Sengizame ngehluleka. Umkami ngangimlobole ngaqeda kangilaso isikwelede kwethuzala. Nginceda Khulu?
Impendulo
Abantu besilisa abanengi bangatshiywa ngomkabo bahlangana lohlupho olufanayo mzukulu. Okwenzakalayo yikuthi umuntu angatshiywa ngomunye wakhe akumelanga aphangise ukuhlangana labesifazana engakakhitshwa inzilo. Kukanti njalo amanye amadoda ahlangana labafazi labo embhedeni womfazi owabhubhayo. Kungakho ungalahlekelwa ngomunye wakho ziphe isikhathi sokukhalela isithandwa sakho kanye lokuzila ucansi. Landela lawe isintu sokuthi ucelelwe ngabakibo ukuthi usudinga umngane njengoba engasekho njalo lesikhathi sesiside.
Okhokho bethu yikho babethatha isithembo besenzela uhlupho olufana lalolu ophakathi kwalo. Ongakwenza mzukulu yikuthi uye kibo komkakho uyecela ukuthi usufuna ukuthatha. Ungenzenjalo bazakuncedisa ukuthi ungaphindi uhlangane lohlupho olufanayo.
Kakaze ayevela kwabakithi
Khulu ngilabantwana ababili abangamankazana kodwa umkami usefuna owesithathu uthi sizame umfana mina kangikamfuni ngoba umkami kakaze ayevela kwabakithi. Sengizamile ukuthi ngithi kayekhipha loba ngukangaziwe nje kodwa uthi uzahamba engathola imali. Khulu kambe imali yake yatholakala inengi ngasikhathi sinye kumbe le ekhona iyahanjiswa kubuyelwe futhi kuyekhitshwa enye. Mina engikufunayo yikuthi abangakithi bamazi okusemthethweni umuntu engihlezi laye. Kambe ngingabe ngiphambanisa yini Khulu?
Impendulo
Mzukulu ngiyakuzwa okutshoyo kodwa wena lomkakho, vele akumelanga ngithi ngumkakho ngoba ubudlelwano benu bubizwa kuthiwa ngumasihlalisane. Mzukulu laphambanisa ekuqaleni ngokuhlala lonke abadala bengakwazi. Ngiyathaba kodwa ngoba usufuna ukukuqondisa kodwa kumele uphathiswe kulokhu. Yana kwesinye isihlobo somkakho uyesichazela ngesifiso sakho ukuze akhulume lomkakho. Limqotho sibili ukuthi imali kayitholakali iyisigaqa kodwa le ekhona ingaphathisa kakhulu ukuthi umkakho ayevela ngakini aziwe.
Kulezinsuku imikhuba lamasiko sekuxubana kungakho kuzakuba buhlungu mhla kuzenzakala ingozi, mhlawumbe udlule kulumhlaba umkakho abesethwala luklubhu abakini sebesithi abamazi kumele abhadale. Bayabe bengaphambanisi futhi ngokutsho njalo ngoba kabamazi okusemthethweni, bazi nje ukuthi umntanabo uhlezi lendoda. Mzukulu zama ukwenza lelicebo mhlawumbe omunye wakho angakuzwisisa acine esiya ngakini lawe ubusuzamdingela indlalifa ukhululekile emoyeni.
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