Obey Sibanda
The Nobuhle Virgie Foundation, led by Nobuhle Virginia Ajiti, working in conjunction with Ko Samuriwo Pub & Grill, will host a men’s conference today in Luveve, Bulawayo.
The event organiser says the gathering is intentionally designed to encourage, equip and challenge men in their personal growth, leadership, faith and relationships, while creating a space where honesty is welcomed and listening is done without judgement.
Speaking ahead of the event, Ajiti said the conference is meant to speak directly to men and the choices they make every day.
“This is not a talk for sympathy. It is a space for accountability, growth and real commitment because the way a man leads his life affects his home, his workplace and his community,” said Ajiti.
The conference will also encourage participants to speak openly about their struggles and responsibilities, then reflect in a guided environment that values respect.
“We want men to be able to say the truth without fear of being judged.
“When men connect personal wellbeing to family and professional life, they start making better decisions. Decisions that protect others and strengthen relationships.”
Ajiti is based in South Africa and is a survivor of gender based violence. After her ordeal, she formed the charity organisation now known as the Nobuhle Virgie Foundation, in her endeavour to assist victims of gender-based violence.
“The trauma survivors carry is not just in the past. It continues when society ignores the causes and the patterns.
“That is why we are working with communities and, importantly, with men. Because stopping gender-based violence requires men to change, to learn, and to take responsibility.”
Today’s conference will include a symposium aimed at tackling issues organisers describe as practical and relevant to everyday life. The programme is expected to address topics including money management, career direction, entrepreneurship and community leadership. Ajiti also confirmed that GBV prevention will feature prominently, with discussions centred on how men can contribute to safer homes and stronger communities.
The event is designed to move beyond awareness into action.
“Men should leave with practical commitments not just ideas. Commitments they can implement at home, with their partners and children, and in the way they influence others.”
A key element of the conference is the venue, which the organiser say is intentionally chosen. The event will be held at a popular joint in Luveve, selected because it is a place where many men already patronise and spend their time. “We chose a venue where men are comfortable .We want the atmosphere to be open and welcoming, so more men can attend and participate fully, said Ajiti.



