Moves to make you go wild

Iaï¿½ï¿½m regularly inundated with requests for new ideas to spice up things in the bedroom. Several weeks ago I suggested you take inspiration from the Kama Sutra and many people were excited to do some fresh night time exercises. Who says you canaï¿½ï¿½t teach an old dog new tricks?
When you ask people to list their most common positions, missionary is the old go-to, followed by spooning and doggy style. The more adventurous may be familiar with cowgirl. Some active readers will recall the Indian Kama Sutra positions Sammukha, Tripadam and Piditaka that I recently added to your repertoire.

Building on the secrets of the Kama Sutra that I introduced a few weeks ago, here I bring some more ideas to the table. These come recommended by top American sex experts and are renowned for the fun they add to midnight dalliances. Give it a go and see if they bring the spark back to your relationship.

1. The Butterfly

The Butterfly is pretty simple but very exciting. The woman lies back with her hips near the edge of the bed and legs apart, while the man stands or kneels on the floor to enter her.

This positions will send sparks flying as it puts the womanaï¿½ï¿½s body on display and allows the man to take the lead.

2. The Pretzel

Not exactly the most romantic name – pretzel is the name for a salty German biscuit – but this is probably a new position youaï¿½ï¿½ll enjoy testing out. The woman starts by lying down on her side, leaving her lower leg flat and outstretched while raising her top leg and wrapping it around the manaï¿½ï¿½s waist. He will kneel in between her thighs, straddling the womanaï¿½ï¿½s lower leg and entering her.

The angle of your bodies gives the man a great view of the action. Since neither partner is in total control, youaï¿½ï¿½ll have to work together to find a rhythm that will send you both over the edge, making this a great position for feeling a mental connection.

3. The Lotus

With both partners sitting upright, the woman straddles the man and wraps her legs around him for a very intimate version of the woman-on-top position.

Youaï¿½ï¿½ll both benefit from deep penetration in this position, while the man is in a prime location to engage with the womanaï¿½ï¿½s chest. This is a good move to try to get both partners to the finish line in no time.

4. The Waterfall

The Waterfall is said to be particularly intense for men – a nice one to give him a birthday treat. The man lies on his back with his head and shoulders resting on the floor and hips on the bed (heaï¿½ï¿½ll probably need some padding on the floor to make this comfortable). The woman then takes the driving seat and sets the pace, leaving the man to sit back, relax and enjoy.

This position is extra special since the rush of blood to the head will give him a sensation that heaï¿½ï¿½s never felt before when he finishes. Save this one for the end of the night so he doesnaï¿½ï¿½t get uncomfortable.

These positions should give you weeks of fun. And once youaï¿½ï¿½ve got used to trying something fresh youaï¿½ï¿½ll be inventing new moves of your own in no time. Let me know how your experiments go via WhatsApp: +27 72 863 2501.