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Lekadeni kwakuthiwa uthando luyimpicabadala, kodwa ukuthi kambe lwalubaphendula izidlova ezibuswa lulaka ezingasela nembeza njengalokhu esikubonayo lesikuzwayo kulezinsuku.
Kayipheli iviki singazwanga ngosehlahlelwe ngehloka kumbe osegwazwe ngengqamu, kuthi osokuhamba phambili kulezinsuku yinkafulakufa yona ebesiyizwela ezimpini, lamhlanje singumbhobho wabantwana wokudlalisa abawukhalela mihla yonke ezitolo.
Kukanengi sifunda ezindabeni ngamadoda abulala omkabo abuye azibulale kambe sokungeneni abantu sebebulalana njengenyamazana? Inyamazana lazo azenzi njalo, zilwa zodwa phela inkunzi zilwela ensikazi kuthi eyodwa enqobileyo yiyo esala lentombi.
Asazi kumbe okunye kusuke kube yikuphambaniseka kwenhlelo, umuntu uyabe esithi uqondisa umfazi, angithi phela ekadeni besisizwa kuthiwa ubaba uyayithela induku kunkosikazi emqondisa kodwa ubengabulali phela.
Siphinde njalo sizwe kuthiwa amakhosikazi ayethi angabona engasatshaywa ngomkabo babone sengathi kasathandwa.
Konke lokhu sokwedlula okokutshaya abesifazana madoda, okoniwa ngomlomo kulungiswa ngawo futhi.
Kambe ingqamu lombhobho sokwake kwatshiya umuntu ephilile? Umuntu usuke azibuze ukuthi kanti pho nxa umuntu seyenze isiga esingaka esedlula uTshaka laye abeseziqeda umphefumulo futhi kusuka kube yini?
Mthwakazi, asizameni ukulungisa okonakeleyo ngendlela eqondileyo hatshi ngodlame. Imitshado siphela, sokusanda imingcwabo ngemimoya emibi le ezunguzayo esingena ebantwini.
Kunzima khona akulula ukuzwa umuntu osuqede laye iminyaka nxa sekutshela ukuthi uthando luphelile kumbe sumkhande ezincindela uluju lwemvelo lomunye umuntu.
Okusalayo yikuthi wena uzambulala, uzafa wena uzasala nxa ukhethe ukusala uphila, kodwa ngeke usakuthola ukuphumula, akumnandi entolongweni, ungaba lomnyama phinde ulale futhi uzathi ucimeza ubone nangu umuntu uhle uphambane ingqondo.
Pho kuyabe sokuyimpilo bani le kulokuthi umekele umuntu, umtshiye, udinge abanye, bayatsho ontanga bathi inhlanzi zinengi elwandle, uzayithola eqondane lawe.
Iyaqhubeka impilo loba suyaliwe kumbe sumkhande esenza okunye umuntu, kutsho ubengasi wakho ke lowo, owakho ukhona usendleleni. Asizameni ukuzibamba bakaMthwakazi singazehlisi isithunzi sizahlekwa zinyamazana, azenzi njalo phela lazo.
